Monday, August 16, 2010

What should we do during our ';alone time'; together?

Monday, My best guy friend/crush (he knows I like him, and he likes me-ish.) are going to the park with two of our friends that are dating each other.





I've talked to these two people and they both said they're going to give us alone time to talk.








-a few weeks ago...he basically broke my heart by saying that he likes me, but i'm not into God enough.





We haven't talked face to face since then, only texting...but we flirt over texts a lot.





I really want to let him know that I respect him a lot and I am willing to do whatever it takes to make this work. Which means taking it slow.





So no kisses, probably just cuddling or holding hands...but how do i go about those without putting him off or making it weird?What should we do during our ';alone time'; together?
Have a nice normal talk with him,


conversation about nothing really. Follow his lead.








How old are you?What should we do during our ';alone time'; together?
play spin a bottle
Watch old episodes of Doctor Who.
just tell him what you just said!!


I really like you and i respect you


that's what relationships are about making sacrifices and changes so let himm know that you are willing to make changes
you're not into god enough???? wtf????
Tell him you lost something inside you and if he would reach in and get it for you
girl its weird already he says your not into god enough well show him the devil
not good enough i would have ignored him from that point forward if your not good enough to be his girlfriend then hes not good enough to be your friend
Let him know that you do really like him and if he's not ready then you're fine with waiting. This might sound kinda weird, but bring a bible and ask him if he would like to read a chapter with you. I find that when I read the bible with my crush (cept we can't date til we're sixteen) that we both enjoy it and have something to talk about. If you aren't wanting to do that then just be a friend and flirt a little but let him take the conversation.
Avoid kissing or flirting in your alone time with this guy, it will make things worst. just talk like old friends and get to know more about eachother, you'll be surprised how much youre going to learn about him this way.....taking things slower might be the best thing for both of you, the reason is that you were on a different level than him, and thats why you felt like you lost something when he told you, you were'nt into God enough.....








at your age getting to know someone is much more fun than rushing into something you will regret a few years from now when you realize your not with him,





-be a friend





you wouldnt want to get too far when your alone with him and your kissing and whatever, its not wise, when guys get into the mood they will tell you they love you and they really dont.............so as to avoid getting hurt and mistreated, be a friend....you'll see how much better you will feel about yourself!!

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