Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Do u think im being over protective of my friend?

Well my friend was voted the hottest girl in school and she flirts with this guy im so over with.....but i know how his mind works and all he wants to do is skrew her if u know what i mean.....well her and my oher best freind went on a cruise together and her being who she is lost her phone...and i dont care if she uses mine but sometimes she texts the guy things that will only make him more crazy....and she walks home with him every friday.....as far back as sixth grade ive walked home with her but now since she has been walking home with him im now like her bodyguard because she goes to his house when his parents arent home.....im the smart one and i try to tell her not to tell her to stop pushing him because a boy like him can only be pushed so far...and i dont want to see her go to waste like that because later he will just leave her for someone else she plans to go to medical school to become a neuroseurgon and i dont think early pregnancy will help her achive that.....she doesnb listen when i tell her this so i want ur opinion...


Leting her fall is like watching ur own child drown...





What should i doDo u think im being over protective of my friend?
I think u should just let things be with her. Experience is the best teacher, and advice is just there to keep in mind. Let them do there thing, maybe he really does like her, but if she gets broken, u can help pick up the pieces. Its good u gave her ur opinion, she can keep it in mind. but if she wants to try be with him, then she should. don't try to stop herDo u think im being over protective of my friend?
Your own child? Don't you think you are being a little overdramatic here? She has to live her own life.





My advice is to never, ever, EVER let anyone else use your cell phone. They could get you into a lot of trouble with things they say, messages and pictures they send, etc., because if it's on your phone it comes back to YOU. If she asks to borrow your phone, tell her politely, no, you aren't allowed to let anyone else use it.
thats hard. cause if you try to protect her too much than shell think your just not over him or sumthin. but... i would just keep telling her and whether she gets it sooner or later shell find out you were only trrin to protect her.
I know exactly how you feel. I was in this same situation with my best friend. I still am actually. I know you want to protect her and make sure that nothing ever harms her or that she won't do anything stupid but, sometimes the best way for people to learn are to make mistakes.





You are doing the right thing though by staying with her when she is alone with this boy. you did not say how her parents felt about all of this or if they even know. This will be hard but you have to tell someone about what she is doing. It does not have to be her parents if you can't tell them but it should be some adult that both you and her trust. you are worried about what she will do to this boy, you should talk to him when he is not with her. Find out if she is hurting him or if he is hurting her.





The best advice is just be a friend and stay with her, because if he does end up hurting her, she will need you.
thats a hard spot. i know how u feal. i agree that u defently need to tell her what u kno about him. tell her you are just telling her it because u care so much and just dont want to see her get hurt. she might not listen, but at least you tryed.if it goes WAY to far, then tell her straight up that what shes doing is WRONG. and that she needs to stop, because she is putting her life in jepordy. but if she donst listen and she gets hurt, shes still gunna need a shoulder to cry on.

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