Monday, August 16, 2010

How to get the guy who has his eye on a couple other girls?!?

Ok well I have this major crush on my friend and we talk all the time and he flirts with me and stuff but it always seems like he likes another girl more than me. A ton of girls like him so I want him to notice how I'm there too! I text him alot but idk am i being too desperate? any tricks to get a guy to notice you? like flirting tips? haha sorry idk why but this guy has got me in over my head. i've never felt like this before... aahhh ! helpp!How to get the guy who has his eye on a couple other girls?!?
not insulting my delf because i am a male but we are very stupid or really smart when it comes to being desperte we have no idea when you act like a person that he want to be with he will talk with you what is imbarrassing is i am trying to do this all the time but to shy....i feal moraon i now it works because i did this with someone eles but at the time i didnt know what i was doing good luck hope it works outHow to get the guy who has his eye on a couple other girls?!?
jus b yourself
tell him.... ';oohhh i am going to be so bored on friday.... are you free to go somewhere ?';
try not to be too clingy to him cuz that turns guys off and then they will actually go for the other girl (it sucks to have that happen) just play it cool and act like a friend rather than someone who wants to be more than a friend. any tricks or flirting tips?? uh just try to not be or sound too desperate and again, just relax and be yourself even if you do something stupid in front of him (its embarresing i know) but just play it off





good luck!!!
Just try to get closer to him and show him how much you care about him by just simple gestures like helping him with his problems and try to flirt with him too. Just follow your heart.
Ok what you need to do is find out how he feels about you. i know it sounds hard, but once the truth is out, you will feel much better. and hey if the feelings are not mutual, there are way better guys, because no guy is worth losing yourself over. trust me, when you are just yourself, guys think that is so cool, don't be fake and he will see how amazing you are. just be yourself, because that's all you really know how to be when you think about it, don't change.



Ok, let up on the texting a smidge. Its ok to send a couple every now and then but let up! He expects them now so if you send less he'll be more excited when he gets one from you. Also, don't text him those stupid chain letters and all that junk. I know for a fact guys hate those.





Just be yourself, get to know him better and just hope he sees how great you are. Just remember, you can't make him like the other girl less. There's nothing you can do to change that. Just make your personality shine through and maybe he'll like you more.





Don't be clingy, just be casual. If you have common interests, share them or even have an opinion. Its ok if you don't agree on the same things, he'll want a girl that stands her ground and has opinions of her own and isn't afraid to speak her mind.





Eye contact is the best. When talking, stare him in the eyes. Make plenty of eye contact (but don't like watch him during class or whatever, that's staring and that's rude and stalkerish).





Sometimes it also just helps to just chill out and act sort of... well guyish. Sometimes just messing around and playing stupid games with the guys is all you need to do for them to realize you're pretty cool.





But yeah, those are the things I usually do and guys seem to like it.





Sorry that was so long but I really hope it helps.





Good luck!! :)

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