i have a best guy friend, that I've known from work for about a year now. we would go on breaks all the time, text daily, flirt, joke around, tease eachother, bump into eachother, touch each other and so on. people have thought that we were in a relationship, even though he has a girlfriend with someone else.
he acts jealous when other guys talk to me, or when I mention to him about a guy. he doesn't ever talk about his girlfriend. recently, we went through a phase. and I don't even know or understand how it happened. that he suddenly said that I was trying to break his relationship up, which he knew I would never do that to him or anyone else!
we stopped talking in june, and sometimes he'd message me on MySpace annoying me and accusing me of stuff I never did. he got mad that I told him that I wouldn't date him if he was the last guy on earth, and won't stop going on about it. then, after a month 1/2 of not talking he wants to start over. %26amp; now after we started over, he won't stop going on about it!
why should it matter if I wouldn't date him? he has a girlfriend!
plus he accused me of trying to break his relationship up, why should it matter!?
plus during the month we weren't talk, he was snooping on me at work (had one of his friends snoop in my department) and would keep checking my conversations with my friends on MySpace!
why should it matter!? what is up with his behavior! please help!
why would he tell me he doesn't like me but goes on about why i wouldn't date him? is he lying about his feelings?
**admittedly, I do have feelings for him. but I don't want to mess up our friendship. he is the only guy I am really comfortable around.
he and i would go on breaks together, touch eachother, tease eachother, he'd bump into me, and i would bump back into him. we would text from early in the morning till late at night. he'd stare at me, and wait for me to finish talking to someone so he could talk to me. he liked playing with my hands, and so on and so fourth.Why should it matter to a guy that i wouldn't date him, if he doesn't have feelings for me?
Well I think there is something there. You know how you feel towards him but he doesn't want to admit what he feels. But if he is not men enough to tell you how he feels you don't need him in your life. He probably doesn't want to mess up the friendship. I think you should tell him I am only your friend and if you want to be more than friends then just let me know because you will be confused if he is your friend or just jealous because he wants to be with you. Sometimes it takes for you to try something to see if you like it. So try that. If it doesn't work then it wasn't worth it. Good Luck.Why should it matter to a guy that i wouldn't date him, if he doesn't have feelings for me?
He wants you but he doesn't want to break up with his girlfriend. He also sounds like a cheater, so be prepared.
The guy likes you.....hes just a bit insecure about it.
He is not in love with you. He thinks you are hot. Because you flirt back he thinks he can get with you. When you talk to other guys he feels like his chances are getting slimmer plus he wants you for himself. If he loved you he would leave his girlfriend and pursuit you. Personally I think it's just an Obsession.
Guys don't have best female friends, at least not for long...
They always fall for her...as this one has for you...
And forget that saving the friendship crap,.... you can't go back to the way it was, all you can do is go forward...
It sounds to me like he did like you but if he didnt think you were willing to date you then he tied to hold back those feeling for you. but when he finally figured out that chances were nothing would happen. I think he is making up reason to turn his love for you into anger so it will go away. he is trying to make you the enemy so he doesnt have to feel that hurt anymore. if you do like him you need to tell him. not to be a homewrecker but it sounds like he likes youmore and keeping his girl around so he wont be alone.
good luck
talk to him in a professional manner i know is, tell him whats bothering you so that it will not uncomfortable seeing everyday at work not talking to someone you care as a friend...
Friday, August 20, 2010
How to flirt flirt flirt?
II really like a guy who serves me at the supermarket. I've been chattin to him a lot at his work last few months but it never goes anywhere. Cause i'm hopeless at flirting!! I also knew him through friends, a few yyrs ago. And we 'used' to text, he doesn't text anymore.
SO how can I flirt with him? or somehow make it very pleasant so he likes me a little more each time? We are over 19.How to flirt flirt flirt?
Ask if he is married or engaged? If he isn't seeing anyone right now tell him you aren't seeing anyone either and maybe we could do something together this week-end if your not busy. Roller skating, horse back ridding, a movie etc. Even go to church if he frequents services? You have to break the ice, small talk is part of his having a public relations job. He has to talk to customers to keep them coming back to shop. However, what your shopping for isn't on the counter. If you have been talking to him for a few months then you should know what he likes and doesn't like and things he may like to do. If you do know what he might be interested in, you can drop a hint that you are going to do (whatever) over the weekend would he like to join you? It hasn't been much fun doing everything alone, etc. Be creative, he isn't putting two and two together so maybe you are being to subtle in your approach. Good Luck.How to flirt flirt flirt?
give him a cookie
Listen to god.
But really, just smile and giggle alot.
He'll get the picture
Give him your body ..........
send him your snap and ask his snap in return
lolz. if he works at the chekout in the supr market and hes ova 19 then he needs to get a real job. also just do that **** they do on movies where they bite there lip. lolz. just gammn. just ask him out
SO how can I flirt with him? or somehow make it very pleasant so he likes me a little more each time? We are over 19.How to flirt flirt flirt?
Ask if he is married or engaged? If he isn't seeing anyone right now tell him you aren't seeing anyone either and maybe we could do something together this week-end if your not busy. Roller skating, horse back ridding, a movie etc. Even go to church if he frequents services? You have to break the ice, small talk is part of his having a public relations job. He has to talk to customers to keep them coming back to shop. However, what your shopping for isn't on the counter. If you have been talking to him for a few months then you should know what he likes and doesn't like and things he may like to do. If you do know what he might be interested in, you can drop a hint that you are going to do (whatever) over the weekend would he like to join you? It hasn't been much fun doing everything alone, etc. Be creative, he isn't putting two and two together so maybe you are being to subtle in your approach. Good Luck.How to flirt flirt flirt?
give him a cookie
Listen to god.
But really, just smile and giggle alot.
He'll get the picture
Give him your body ..........
send him your snap and ask his snap in return
lolz. if he works at the chekout in the supr market and hes ova 19 then he needs to get a real job. also just do that **** they do on movies where they bite there lip. lolz. just gammn. just ask him out
What is the problem here?????? (guy issue)?
I met this guy at work, 7 months ago. We do have an age difference (I'm 29, he is 22) but we became fast friends, going to lunch together, he would call and text me all time. We had this crazy physical chemistry and he claimed to be single but at the time said he had some ';stuff'; going on with an ex. I don't know the full details, if they were fully together or not, but him and I didn't go out, outside of work. But he would flirt with me like crazy (telling me I was hot constantly) and than the sexy text messages started (sexting), I thought he was at least sexually interested. But he never tried to get together outside of work. Maybe he just liked the fact than an older woman, liked him, I don't really know. I ended up leaving that job and stopped contact with him, just because of the mixed signals. A few weeks after I left, I found out that he did have a girlfriend the entire time. I was pretty upset, so I did a pretty immature thing and emailed her through facebook. I told her that her boyfriend was claiming to be single and had been calling me nearly every night for almost 2 months. She just responded by thanking me for the info and I didn't hear from her again.
So last week I go to text a guy friend (who has the same name.) But I texted ';guy from work'; on accident! He responded back within like 20 seconds. After he determined that the text wasn't meant for him, he started texting me, asking me how I was doing and what I had been up to. We have been texting on on and off for a week now. He is single this time, they broke up. I was very surprised that he even wanted to speak to me after what I did. He told me he never meant to hurt me, if he did. After a few days, I realized how much I still ';want'; him. I expressed that I would like to get together in a physical way, he responded that he is very interested in doing that as well. Telling me he always thought I was hot and he always ';wanted'; me. But it seems like the games have began again. I suggested that he come by over the weekend, and he gave me some lame excuse, so I told him if he was all talk, not to waste my time. He comes back with that he does want me and he wants to ';hang out'; soon. ';Soon'; wtf is that? If he isn't interested why tell me he is? I don't know if this is him, playing hard to get..or maybe he is intimidated by the age difference and experience I have over him?What is the problem here?????? (guy issue)?
People have alot of emotions and sometimes confused too but to take time to think and to do the best we can, can be the best. All the best!
So last week I go to text a guy friend (who has the same name.) But I texted ';guy from work'; on accident! He responded back within like 20 seconds. After he determined that the text wasn't meant for him, he started texting me, asking me how I was doing and what I had been up to. We have been texting on on and off for a week now. He is single this time, they broke up. I was very surprised that he even wanted to speak to me after what I did. He told me he never meant to hurt me, if he did. After a few days, I realized how much I still ';want'; him. I expressed that I would like to get together in a physical way, he responded that he is very interested in doing that as well. Telling me he always thought I was hot and he always ';wanted'; me. But it seems like the games have began again. I suggested that he come by over the weekend, and he gave me some lame excuse, so I told him if he was all talk, not to waste my time. He comes back with that he does want me and he wants to ';hang out'; soon. ';Soon'; wtf is that? If he isn't interested why tell me he is? I don't know if this is him, playing hard to get..or maybe he is intimidated by the age difference and experience I have over him?What is the problem here?????? (guy issue)?
People have alot of emotions and sometimes confused too but to take time to think and to do the best we can, can be the best. All the best!
This guy...does he like me or is he just playing games?
There is this guy that i am in LOVE with but i am pretty good at pretending im not really interested and just want to be friends. The main reason i act like this is because i have heard from a few people and seen how he tries to act with me that he is kind of a player...when i asked him why people were telling me this, he admitted that it was probably because he likes to flirt and he's a bit of a tease.
He has asked me out three times over the past two months and i keep saying no but i don't want him to stop liking me so i keep going to school looking pretty lol.
he has all these nicknames for me like shaina girl and baby girl etc. and i always catch him looking at me and smiling at me all the time.
he texts me every once in a while and i always text him back but i never out of the blue text him cuz he just answers with yeah or okay my love lol..
i like it but i can't help thinking that he's just trying to get some...i'm a virgin and have never had a boyfriend so obviously it hurts to think that he just wants me for sex and im still trying to figure out if he's telling the truth when he says im a cool girl and he would never do anything i wasn't comfortable with.
in the two months we've known each other, we've had one good conversation. and since that day it's just been little convos here and there on the pool deck and through text.
i had two deaths in my family last week (i didn't really know them too well) so i asked him if he would cover my lifeguard shift cuz he's one too and he was glad to help me out...and he text me later on ';i know we don't talk much but just know i'm always here for you to talk to even if you just need a shoulder....please keep me updated about your family';
ugghhh!!!
does it sound like he's interested in me?
i don't get it...or
Should i just get over this guy?
please help me...it seems like i can trust him but what do you think?
thanks!!
p.s.
(i'm a lifeguard and he's on the swim team)This guy...does he like me or is he just playing games?
If i were you I'd ask him what he thinks of you if he says i like you ur my babe or something like that for get him cuz he's a player and if he's like I think i like you or i like you alot or something like that then he might not be as people say...it all depends i suggest you get to know him a little more first.This guy...does he like me or is he just playing games?
He might be. Just give him a chance. If things don't work out, its not that hard to end it. When I'm in situations like that, I always go for it. I can't stand the constant wondering what could have happened.
He has asked me out three times over the past two months and i keep saying no but i don't want him to stop liking me so i keep going to school looking pretty lol.
he has all these nicknames for me like shaina girl and baby girl etc. and i always catch him looking at me and smiling at me all the time.
he texts me every once in a while and i always text him back but i never out of the blue text him cuz he just answers with yeah or okay my love lol..
i like it but i can't help thinking that he's just trying to get some...i'm a virgin and have never had a boyfriend so obviously it hurts to think that he just wants me for sex and im still trying to figure out if he's telling the truth when he says im a cool girl and he would never do anything i wasn't comfortable with.
in the two months we've known each other, we've had one good conversation. and since that day it's just been little convos here and there on the pool deck and through text.
i had two deaths in my family last week (i didn't really know them too well) so i asked him if he would cover my lifeguard shift cuz he's one too and he was glad to help me out...and he text me later on ';i know we don't talk much but just know i'm always here for you to talk to even if you just need a shoulder....please keep me updated about your family';
ugghhh!!!
does it sound like he's interested in me?
i don't get it...or
Should i just get over this guy?
please help me...it seems like i can trust him but what do you think?
thanks!!
p.s.
(i'm a lifeguard and he's on the swim team)This guy...does he like me or is he just playing games?
If i were you I'd ask him what he thinks of you if he says i like you ur my babe or something like that for get him cuz he's a player and if he's like I think i like you or i like you alot or something like that then he might not be as people say...it all depends i suggest you get to know him a little more first.This guy...does he like me or is he just playing games?
He might be. Just give him a chance. If things don't work out, its not that hard to end it. When I'm in situations like that, I always go for it. I can't stand the constant wondering what could have happened.
Would a guy who is uninterested do this?
-blush all the time
- stand close/lean into me
-text everyday for a year
-came to a 4-6 hour dance recital
- go on breaks with me alot
- calls for no reason but to push buttons and blow into the phone
-kinda snuggle together
-rubbed my shoulder
-hid in my car with two of our co-workers trying to scare me
-always uses smiley faces and ';lol, hehe'; through myspace and text
-smiles and laughs all the time
-stares
-gets ticked and jealous when i bring up about other guys or flirt with other guys
-touches me (thigh, hands,etc)
-grabs my hand and wont let go until i arm wrestle
-finds something to poke my in the face with
-pushes me and bumps into my hips alot
-hits me with a mop
-sticks his tongue at me
my best guy friend does all of that.
we have known eachother for over a year.
he has a girlfriend but he barely EVER talks about her during these 8 months of seeing her and says ';im glad i dont see her more than 2 days a week otherwise id get sick of her';
and she already lives 45 minutes away from him and only see him at church.
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we work together so thats how the hitting me with a mop (jokingly) fits into it
12 hours ago
the hiding in my car part was a joke because the two friends who were also part of it (who are girls) they did the same to him.. so it wasnt stalkerishWould a guy who is uninterested do this?
he likes you girl !
- stand close/lean into me
-text everyday for a year
-came to a 4-6 hour dance recital
- go on breaks with me alot
- calls for no reason but to push buttons and blow into the phone
-kinda snuggle together
-rubbed my shoulder
-hid in my car with two of our co-workers trying to scare me
-always uses smiley faces and ';lol, hehe'; through myspace and text
-smiles and laughs all the time
-stares
-gets ticked and jealous when i bring up about other guys or flirt with other guys
-touches me (thigh, hands,etc)
-grabs my hand and wont let go until i arm wrestle
-finds something to poke my in the face with
-pushes me and bumps into my hips alot
-hits me with a mop
-sticks his tongue at me
my best guy friend does all of that.
we have known eachother for over a year.
he has a girlfriend but he barely EVER talks about her during these 8 months of seeing her and says ';im glad i dont see her more than 2 days a week otherwise id get sick of her';
and she already lives 45 minutes away from him and only see him at church.
* 13 hours ago
* - 3 days left to answer.
Additional Details
we work together so thats how the hitting me with a mop (jokingly) fits into it
12 hours ago
the hiding in my car part was a joke because the two friends who were also part of it (who are girls) they did the same to him.. so it wasnt stalkerishWould a guy who is uninterested do this?
he likes you girl !
How can I get over the love of my life punishing me?
Ok, here is my problem...unrequited love. I am gay. I met this guy 8 months ago who is a Barista in a coffee shop. He is 15 years younger than me. I am 35. He is 20. When we first met I immediately felt a chemistry of sexual attraction. I have excellent gaydar and always have. After getting to know him I believed he was discreetly gay or Bi. I am intelligent enough that I don’t stereotype people ever. I was in the closet until I met him and chose to come out to him thinking he might do the same and want to do something together. On two occasions when we were alone for a couple of minutes, he sent out signals or body language making me suspect he was gay. It was not flirting. He was pulling up his shirt and telling me to feel his muscles and bending down by me closely wrapping his arms around my legs showing me wrestling moves. This is a guy who does not like other people touching him by the way. Another time he was bending over giving me an *** shot then turning around and just staring at me for a few minutes. SO, we have become friends over this 8 month period and I have fallen in love with him. I was silent about how I felt about him until just a few weeks ago. He told me he was not in love with me because he is straight. I have been stuck with the uncertainty of these signals wondering if he was being cruel or just playing hi and low with my emotions. This is a guy who paints his toenails pink and wears them openly with sandals at work, his mom thinks he is gay, tells me when he sees a hot guy saying ‘dude he is hot’... He also tells me he loves the male physique but not in a sexual way because he is secure in his sexuality and has told me he has ****** two other guys 4 or 5 years ago. I think he could be bisexual, but he says your either gay or straight. So he met this woman who is 25. This woman he met is a student psychologist. I have seen a major change in him as if she controls him like a puppy on a leash. He claims after he had sex with her that he definately knew he was straight after having doubts about his sexuality for years. They have been living together for 4 months now. Him and his girlfriend are the only ones I have told I am gay. He promised me he will never tell anyone I am gay. He is really cocky and arrogant now and neglects all of his friends and family. His whole life just revolves around him and her 99% of the time.
Now that he has moved in with her, he brags about the sex marathons and it just kills me. He knows I am in love with him and it pains me to see the two of them together. She also knows that I am in love with him and pours it on thick when they are around me. I have come to know him as my best friend. I feel for him 2 months before she came into the picture. However, he told me he loves me as a friend and that is as far as it will go. He says he is totally comfortable with me being gay. I have accepted this painful reality. He has told me age is just a number and he has lots of friends different ages. So our 15 year age gap is not even an issue with him. This I know for sure. So, I shift to the friendship part of this. I have put 8 long months into this friendship and thousands of dollars I have given to him and lots of great gifts because I truly love him as my best friend. I even give him a ride home after he gets off work all the time only to drop him off at her apartment. I have spent hundreds on gas just driving 20 miles to see him and 20 miles home. I always text him at least 3 times a week or come in to help him close at work and clean up the dirt and filth of the day while he counts the till. He says all his time goes to his girlfriend and I understand that. He said all he has time for me is to just sit and talk for an hour or so. So we sat down and had a long talk which he told me his heart was not in it to be best friends with me and afterwards I became very emotional and broke down and stormed off angry. Every since then he is ignoring me, not answering calls or texts, or anything knowing how bad I am hurting. My heart is broken and I feel so used and alone. Looking back he always accepted my gifts and money but never called me once to do anything friends do or initiated any texts unless it was a question about her. How can I get over this man who I am so in love with and heal my broken split in half heart? This was not infatuation but true love and man does this hurt. Oh, I can’t get him out of my life because he still has a room at a mutual friend of ours house that he has not completely moved out of and wants to keep it as a place to “hang his hat” as he says if he ever needs to. My life has been turned upside down. I can’t sleep or anything else without thinking of him. My heart hurts so bad and I have cried enough tears to fill a lake. It doesn’t seem like he even cares about me as a friend as his omission of silence is so cruel. I am being punished by him for expressing my true feelings and who I am as a human being and it hurts. I feel like a piece of discarded garbage. Please help...NO HATERS...SERIOUS ANSWERS FOR A HURTING HEART PLEASE!How can I get over the love of my life punishing me?
You've asked this question FIVE TIMES in less than a day. I think it is time that you started PAYING ATTENTION to some of the very good advice you have already received.
Right now you are in violation of the community guidelines...
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/info/communi…
It's right down there at number 20 in the ';don'ts'; list. Stop before someone reports you.How can I get over the love of my life punishing me?
It didn't work out. Move on. Let it go. Heal. Recover. Get balanced. Give it some time. And, then, go find new love. Think more about who that new love will be than about the love you have lost. Pretend with all of your heart that you are preparing yourself, growing balanced and well for that NEW love waiting out there for you to appear someday. Be as ready as you can for that NEW love.
Mate, you're a stalker!
Get over it. Leave the poor fella alone!!
Your obsession has pushed him away from you. YOU ruined what could have been a normal friendship, by wanting / demanding so much more.
I agree, time is a great healer it's not meant to be. There's always better around the corner. You sound like a generous guy don't waste your money or time. Find someone who appreciates you and will return your kindness and love. You deserve better. If he's unsure of himself let him find out the hard way, maybe one day he'll hurt as bad as you feel now. But.... you'll be with someone new. Chin up , best of luck.
I hate to say this, but though there were some signs that he may be gay, there were also signs he didn't like you like that. Maybe he was bi, but he's found someone that he cares about and is very happy with. I think the only thing you can do is just to move on and try to forget him. It may be hard, but you can do it.
Best of luck.
I'm so sorry - I can 'hear' how broken up you are over this guy. I could tell you he's not worth it, but you won't believe me because you still love him. I don't know if he treated you this poorly on purpose or if he was just thoughtless and careless of your feelings. Either way, the result is the same. I believe you truly love him - but I'm not sure he loves anyone other than himself right now. Maybe because of his youth - or maybe he will always be emotionally immature.
Try to separate from him emotionally - don't continue to call or text him, don't give him any more rides, and don't give him any more money. Of course you will feel wretched when you see him, so don't go out of your way to create or extend those occasions.
Here's to hoping your broken heart will start to heal soon.....
Regardless who you have been hurt by, it will only hurt more if you stick around this guy. Just stop talking to him delete his number and move on. He obviously isnt interested. Sounds llike you threw a lot of money into your relationship in hopes he would see that and maybe feel the same way as you. Money cant buy love. who knows maybe hes gay or bi he may be into this girl for real. just be happy for him and keep on looking its the only way you can come out of this gracefullycomputer security deleted myspace
Now that he has moved in with her, he brags about the sex marathons and it just kills me. He knows I am in love with him and it pains me to see the two of them together. She also knows that I am in love with him and pours it on thick when they are around me. I have come to know him as my best friend. I feel for him 2 months before she came into the picture. However, he told me he loves me as a friend and that is as far as it will go. He says he is totally comfortable with me being gay. I have accepted this painful reality. He has told me age is just a number and he has lots of friends different ages. So our 15 year age gap is not even an issue with him. This I know for sure. So, I shift to the friendship part of this. I have put 8 long months into this friendship and thousands of dollars I have given to him and lots of great gifts because I truly love him as my best friend. I even give him a ride home after he gets off work all the time only to drop him off at her apartment. I have spent hundreds on gas just driving 20 miles to see him and 20 miles home. I always text him at least 3 times a week or come in to help him close at work and clean up the dirt and filth of the day while he counts the till. He says all his time goes to his girlfriend and I understand that. He said all he has time for me is to just sit and talk for an hour or so. So we sat down and had a long talk which he told me his heart was not in it to be best friends with me and afterwards I became very emotional and broke down and stormed off angry. Every since then he is ignoring me, not answering calls or texts, or anything knowing how bad I am hurting. My heart is broken and I feel so used and alone. Looking back he always accepted my gifts and money but never called me once to do anything friends do or initiated any texts unless it was a question about her. How can I get over this man who I am so in love with and heal my broken split in half heart? This was not infatuation but true love and man does this hurt. Oh, I can’t get him out of my life because he still has a room at a mutual friend of ours house that he has not completely moved out of and wants to keep it as a place to “hang his hat” as he says if he ever needs to. My life has been turned upside down. I can’t sleep or anything else without thinking of him. My heart hurts so bad and I have cried enough tears to fill a lake. It doesn’t seem like he even cares about me as a friend as his omission of silence is so cruel. I am being punished by him for expressing my true feelings and who I am as a human being and it hurts. I feel like a piece of discarded garbage. Please help...NO HATERS...SERIOUS ANSWERS FOR A HURTING HEART PLEASE!How can I get over the love of my life punishing me?
You've asked this question FIVE TIMES in less than a day. I think it is time that you started PAYING ATTENTION to some of the very good advice you have already received.
Right now you are in violation of the community guidelines...
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/info/communi…
It's right down there at number 20 in the ';don'ts'; list. Stop before someone reports you.How can I get over the love of my life punishing me?
It didn't work out. Move on. Let it go. Heal. Recover. Get balanced. Give it some time. And, then, go find new love. Think more about who that new love will be than about the love you have lost. Pretend with all of your heart that you are preparing yourself, growing balanced and well for that NEW love waiting out there for you to appear someday. Be as ready as you can for that NEW love.
Mate, you're a stalker!
Get over it. Leave the poor fella alone!!
Your obsession has pushed him away from you. YOU ruined what could have been a normal friendship, by wanting / demanding so much more.
I agree, time is a great healer it's not meant to be. There's always better around the corner. You sound like a generous guy don't waste your money or time. Find someone who appreciates you and will return your kindness and love. You deserve better. If he's unsure of himself let him find out the hard way, maybe one day he'll hurt as bad as you feel now. But.... you'll be with someone new. Chin up , best of luck.
I hate to say this, but though there were some signs that he may be gay, there were also signs he didn't like you like that. Maybe he was bi, but he's found someone that he cares about and is very happy with. I think the only thing you can do is just to move on and try to forget him. It may be hard, but you can do it.
Best of luck.
I'm so sorry - I can 'hear' how broken up you are over this guy. I could tell you he's not worth it, but you won't believe me because you still love him. I don't know if he treated you this poorly on purpose or if he was just thoughtless and careless of your feelings. Either way, the result is the same. I believe you truly love him - but I'm not sure he loves anyone other than himself right now. Maybe because of his youth - or maybe he will always be emotionally immature.
Try to separate from him emotionally - don't continue to call or text him, don't give him any more rides, and don't give him any more money. Of course you will feel wretched when you see him, so don't go out of your way to create or extend those occasions.
Here's to hoping your broken heart will start to heal soon.....
Regardless who you have been hurt by, it will only hurt more if you stick around this guy. Just stop talking to him delete his number and move on. He obviously isnt interested. Sounds llike you threw a lot of money into your relationship in hopes he would see that and maybe feel the same way as you. Money cant buy love. who knows maybe hes gay or bi he may be into this girl for real. just be happy for him and keep on looking its the only way you can come out of this gracefully
How can talk to a shy girl when im shy myself?
I know this girl is kinda shy. But she gives me absolutely nothing to work with when im talking to her. How can i get the conversation going/flirt? (im kind of a shy guy)
im not shy when girls give me something to work with but no in this case.
the only time i can flirt with her is over text and i feel like a loser saying that.
me and my friend are hoping to hang out with her and her friend over break. my friend and her friend have a thing. so i figure if we hang out i can talk to her on a personal level with her still being comfortable.
alsoo....weird....
whenever she texts me, and i respond, she doesn't.
example: her-heyy. me-hey, whats up?, no response from her...
appreciate any advice/ thoughts!
thanks!How can talk to a shy girl when im shy myself?
mmmmmm idk man I'm kinda funny that might break the ice, try to make a joke about somethin u have in common mmm an awful teacher or stuff that happen to u idk just try to pull her tongue as much as u can so u can start working on what she says and if ur really desperate about her go ahead and ask er friend she might know somethin. good luck
im not shy when girls give me something to work with but no in this case.
the only time i can flirt with her is over text and i feel like a loser saying that.
me and my friend are hoping to hang out with her and her friend over break. my friend and her friend have a thing. so i figure if we hang out i can talk to her on a personal level with her still being comfortable.
alsoo....weird....
whenever she texts me, and i respond, she doesn't.
example: her-heyy. me-hey, whats up?, no response from her...
appreciate any advice/ thoughts!
thanks!How can talk to a shy girl when im shy myself?
mmmmmm idk man I'm kinda funny that might break the ice, try to make a joke about somethin u have in common mmm an awful teacher or stuff that happen to u idk just try to pull her tongue as much as u can so u can start working on what she says and if ur really desperate about her go ahead and ask er friend she might know somethin. good luck
How do i get over my feelings for him?
How do i get over my feelings for him?
guy friend flirted with me about us hooking up. the thing is he has a gf overseas and is engaged to her and knew I developed a deep crush on him. We exchanged a few words about getting together like where we do it, and if we would use protection, etc. I was really falln 4 him and he told me that it was best that i focus on someone else. anyway a few days later, I texted him to wish him Happy New Year's and he didn't text back and i got upset and called him a dog. I then wrote him a note apologizing to him and suggested that we stop texting each other about sex. Weeks later, he looked at me like he was angry but still said hi. I emailed him asking him if he was still upset and that it might be best that we treat each other as coworkers. he replied back and told me that i was too weird and that he was just jokin and that i should get some friends and a bf. Now I don't talk to him or even look his way, but it's hard since I still have feelings for him and he luks sad.How do i get over my feelings for him?
i no its all hard for you to not like this guy but its best if you do.you probally like something in him that makes you not to want to let go and also dont see in other guys, but believe me that it is possible to find someone else.your either going to find him or he's going to find you.in the end you'll be fine.its like when you get a shot, sure it hurts a little or a lot but later on you'll feel better.it just takes time.About him he 's probally just curious about how it'll be if he was with you.Guys that are engaged feel a lot that way.He may look mad but just when you see him.Remember looks are deceiving,dont get hurtHow do i get over my feelings for him?
Well im sorry but there is no easy answer for this no one should be able to but you have to find a way because liking or loving him cant go away you can try everything it will just hurt more to try to leave him. You have to find a way to forget him and just move on with your life. Or you can always try to find someone that will give you fellings of feeling safe around. But more than everything you need to convince your self that you are better off without him in your life. ( But to me he just wanted a sexual relationship with you anyway nothing more).
DIdnt I answer this before! Um just move on. U cant have him so dont bother urself with the thought. He just wanted sex and nothing more, so but its the honest truth.
guy friend flirted with me about us hooking up. the thing is he has a gf overseas and is engaged to her and knew I developed a deep crush on him. We exchanged a few words about getting together like where we do it, and if we would use protection, etc. I was really falln 4 him and he told me that it was best that i focus on someone else. anyway a few days later, I texted him to wish him Happy New Year's and he didn't text back and i got upset and called him a dog. I then wrote him a note apologizing to him and suggested that we stop texting each other about sex. Weeks later, he looked at me like he was angry but still said hi. I emailed him asking him if he was still upset and that it might be best that we treat each other as coworkers. he replied back and told me that i was too weird and that he was just jokin and that i should get some friends and a bf. Now I don't talk to him or even look his way, but it's hard since I still have feelings for him and he luks sad.How do i get over my feelings for him?
i no its all hard for you to not like this guy but its best if you do.you probally like something in him that makes you not to want to let go and also dont see in other guys, but believe me that it is possible to find someone else.your either going to find him or he's going to find you.in the end you'll be fine.its like when you get a shot, sure it hurts a little or a lot but later on you'll feel better.it just takes time.About him he 's probally just curious about how it'll be if he was with you.Guys that are engaged feel a lot that way.He may look mad but just when you see him.Remember looks are deceiving,dont get hurtHow do i get over my feelings for him?
Well im sorry but there is no easy answer for this no one should be able to but you have to find a way because liking or loving him cant go away you can try everything it will just hurt more to try to leave him. You have to find a way to forget him and just move on with your life. Or you can always try to find someone that will give you fellings of feeling safe around. But more than everything you need to convince your self that you are better off without him in your life. ( But to me he just wanted a sexual relationship with you anyway nothing more).
DIdnt I answer this before! Um just move on. U cant have him so dont bother urself with the thought. He just wanted sex and nothing more, so but its the honest truth.
I like an older guy(but he's only one year) and my ex is flirting!?
So first of all my boyfriend broke up with me two days ago. I realized when this happened that I actually don't like him. He is flirting with this other girl, one who spread a rumor about how I liked someone else, when i DIDN'T! But my boyfriend believed her, so he broke up with me...and now he's flirting with her! I am really pissed at her, and him! But anyways I like this guy in an older grade, he's cute, funny, and nice! I think he likes me! At a dance he bumped my hip with his and winked at me, then he told me I was cute, this was about two weeks ago. I like him, and I text him. I told her that I thought my boyfriend was a douche, what else should I say? I'm going to text him when his practice is over. Should I say Heyyy! So I am SO pissed at *my ex boyfriends name* because he was flirting with*the girls name*? orrrr, should i just be like Hey! You look amazing in your baseball clothes? HELP!!I like an older guy(but he's only one year) and my ex is flirting!?
When talking to a new guy ( or girl), you never mention your ex.. they aren't interested in that, they want you to talk about them...
new guy is interested in you, so your two choices are.. the new guy, or go for the girl too....
When talking to a new guy ( or girl), you never mention your ex.. they aren't interested in that, they want you to talk about them...
new guy is interested in you, so your two choices are.. the new guy, or go for the girl too....
Is she acting like she want me as more than a friend?
alright check it. I just started talkin to this girl who i go to school with. We were friends and had a class together, where we would flirt a good bit. I made jokes, she would laugh, we were always partners, etc ; i was really attracted to her but i was in a serious relationship at the time so i didnt make any moves. I'm fresh out of that relationship which ended pretty badly so i started talking to this girl again. I asked her to play tennis and immediately she was excited. She gave me her number through an email and we start texting each other a lot, i initiated the texting. There was flirting all over the text, me with my swagger eventually had her jokingly sayin she knows where i live and was planning a sneak attack, etc.
When we went to play it was cool, but i could feel some sort of tension between us. Not long after we met up for the first time since our class together, to play tennis, she tells me about how she just ran into her ex-boyfriend ';lol';. Not long after that, she runs into a a couple of guys she knows and gets a real big hug from one of them and was asked to hangout later. She told him yes but as soon as we walk away she says ';thats a not.'; So in the first 5 minutes, i know shes single and not interested in the guy friends she has (the ones i saw anyways).
As we play, i turn my game back on: i make jokes, she laughes, we look at each others eyes a lot, smile, etc. We bet on the tennis games, if i won= we play again, if she wins= i call her princess. We both won so as i walked her to her car and asked to when she wanted to play again, she picked the soonest day i had available and seemed really excited. Now being the first time id seen her in a while, i didnt feel comfortable making any advances. I didnt even go for a hug (neither did she), though i just saw her hug many guy friends.
That night, again, i initiate the texting, and again we text till late in the night...flirting as usual. The next day i decided to wait and she if she would initiate texting me as a way to gauge her interest, but it hasnt happened... we are supposed to play again tomorrow but now i'm confused by all of these mixed signals...any opinions? advice? what does she want, lol?
i know this is a lot to read, but i need some help. lolIs she acting like she want me as more than a friend?
Whenever you two play tennis again I think you need to let her know whats up.
If you really like her ask her out...And let her know how you feel. If she feels the same way then that's good, if not just try to be friends with her instead.Is she acting like she want me as more than a friend?
I think you should just flirt her and hug her when she is about to leave and she if she will go in for just a little peck on the lips but don't pressure her because it sounds like she does like you more than just a friend
it seems like she likes you and you like her, she is probably starting to pull away, from fear of rejection because you didn't make a move, and she might have been scared to make a move, because she might think that you only think of her as a friend, just be straight up and ask her out, the worst that could happen is she would say no(:
Grow a sack and call the women !
I read all of it. You're an incredible writer. Usually when people post questions on YA, I can't understand what they're saying because their grammar is so bad. Anyways, it sounds to me she's just being a little flirt. Like she thinks it's fun flirting with you, but she doesn't want to be with you.
And it's not in a sense of leading you on. I don't think those are her intentions. It sounds to me she just wants attention from you for some reason because you make her laugh. It would probably make things clearer if you could say exactly what ';We flirted through text'; means. This would help clear up the mixed signals you think she's giving you.
just talk to her about how you feel and ask her how she feels
When we went to play it was cool, but i could feel some sort of tension between us. Not long after we met up for the first time since our class together, to play tennis, she tells me about how she just ran into her ex-boyfriend ';lol';. Not long after that, she runs into a a couple of guys she knows and gets a real big hug from one of them and was asked to hangout later. She told him yes but as soon as we walk away she says ';thats a not.'; So in the first 5 minutes, i know shes single and not interested in the guy friends she has (the ones i saw anyways).
As we play, i turn my game back on: i make jokes, she laughes, we look at each others eyes a lot, smile, etc. We bet on the tennis games, if i won= we play again, if she wins= i call her princess. We both won so as i walked her to her car and asked to when she wanted to play again, she picked the soonest day i had available and seemed really excited. Now being the first time id seen her in a while, i didnt feel comfortable making any advances. I didnt even go for a hug (neither did she), though i just saw her hug many guy friends.
That night, again, i initiate the texting, and again we text till late in the night...flirting as usual. The next day i decided to wait and she if she would initiate texting me as a way to gauge her interest, but it hasnt happened... we are supposed to play again tomorrow but now i'm confused by all of these mixed signals...any opinions? advice? what does she want, lol?
i know this is a lot to read, but i need some help. lolIs she acting like she want me as more than a friend?
Whenever you two play tennis again I think you need to let her know whats up.
If you really like her ask her out...And let her know how you feel. If she feels the same way then that's good, if not just try to be friends with her instead.Is she acting like she want me as more than a friend?
I think you should just flirt her and hug her when she is about to leave and she if she will go in for just a little peck on the lips but don't pressure her because it sounds like she does like you more than just a friend
it seems like she likes you and you like her, she is probably starting to pull away, from fear of rejection because you didn't make a move, and she might have been scared to make a move, because she might think that you only think of her as a friend, just be straight up and ask her out, the worst that could happen is she would say no(:
Grow a sack and call the women !
I read all of it. You're an incredible writer. Usually when people post questions on YA, I can't understand what they're saying because their grammar is so bad. Anyways, it sounds to me she's just being a little flirt. Like she thinks it's fun flirting with you, but she doesn't want to be with you.
And it's not in a sense of leading you on. I don't think those are her intentions. It sounds to me she just wants attention from you for some reason because you make her laugh. It would probably make things clearer if you could say exactly what ';We flirted through text'; means. This would help clear up the mixed signals you think she's giving you.
just talk to her about how you feel and ask her how she feels
Your thoughts about this guy?
I know I know everyone says you know when hes the one. And I did but now im not sure. When we first met and made eye contact it was intense and surreal, i felt like I knew him there was a sense of familiarity. He even contacted me out of the blue and we have convos over text a couple times a week. We have a lot in common share a sense of humor.In class I feel a sense of comfort and peace with him. its just different from how ive ever felt with anyone (and believe me ive experienced the infatuation and the lust etc..) my heart keeps on telling me this feels sooo right, but how can this be when he has a gf? logically someone would say if he felt the same way wouldnt he leave her? but we havent confessed anything to eachother and its true my feelings mayyy be stronger than his but i just think he hasnt realized it fully yet and gets a sense of security out of his existing relationship. theres nothing i can really do besides tell him , but other than that i dont know how to feel emotionally about this.. i may never see him again hes graduating.. i dont know if im supposed to let go emotionally or hold on to this possibility. iknow he feels it too i just dont know to what extent..we dont really flirt btw..we keep our conversations pretty real and honest.Your thoughts about this guy?
Don't be the girl who takes the guy from the girlfriend. If the relationship is meant to be, it will be. If he leaves her for you, then he will do that to you too one day. Let it be and let his relationship work or not. If it falls apart on its own, then go for it.
Don't be the girl who takes the guy from the girlfriend. If the relationship is meant to be, it will be. If he leaves her for you, then he will do that to you too one day. Let it be and let his relationship work or not. If it falls apart on its own, then go for it.
Who's the bad guy? (this is long)?
So I was dating this girl for eleven months. Things were amazing. It was the longest relationship I'd ever had. We had our lives planned out and were ready to move in together after we graduated and have a few kids and what not. She sacrificed so many things for me but after awhile things started to get a bit too comfortable.
One of her friends started to take an interest in me and for some reason since our sex life had slowed down I became curious. I fought it like crazy because I refused to cheat. I'd been cheated on way too many times to do that to her. We were always open with eachother about our feelings so I told her how I felt about her friend. We both cried and argued and decided to take a break. But it wasn't really a break. I couldn't do anything I wanted. Didn't want to be single because I loved her. And she still called every single day. We still had sex, everything was as if we never seperated. So we got back together. Things were okay for a few months but then her friend came BACK into the picture. This time I refused to tell my girl about it because I felt it was nothing. But one day after a party, my girlfriend drove home with another friend and i drove the girl home. As we were saying goodbye, she kissed me. I soon pulled her off and told I couldn't. I loved my girlfriend but I still felt like I'd cheated. I went back to my girlfriend's house ashamed at myself. She deserved better than me. I'd cheated on her. I couldn't even sleep beside her that night, so i woke her up to talk. I told her she was too good of a girl to be with someone like me. Things were too comfortable and I wasn't sure if I was even able to settle down yet. I wanted to but after what I believed was cheating on her I didn't think I could settle down.
I didn't tell her I cheated. Just told her I wasn't sure what I wanted. As we both sat there sobbing, she told me ';once you figure out what you want, I'll be here. Just don't forget that. I'll wait for you.';
I left early that morning and drove to her friend's house. told her the news. she was shocked and said i shouldn't have. After afew days I was sleeping with her. But soon realized I still loved my ex. It killed her to hear this but she understood. I showed up at my ex's house that night with a cake for her birthday. I had a mini birthday party for her and at exactly midnight had her blow out her candles. But the whole time, she was on the phone with another girl she liked. It broke my heart hearing her flirt over the phone but I knew I deserved it after breaking her heart. A few days later, I came clean to my ex. told her everything that happened. Explained that I knew I'd messed up and I was ready now. But I knew she wasn't. She told me ';well we hardly ever had sex. So I wanna see if me and things with this other girl work out'; I was crying and told her I understood but if we ever got back together that we would have sex. even though sex shouldn't have been the issue. I was desperate for her back.
She's still with that girl. And she's told my ex not to talk to me, not to hang out with me, not to even think of me. She steals my ex's phone and insults me. Threatens me. And the sad part is she lets her. Once she even tried to kick me out of my ex's house (i'm still very close with my ex's family and help out with bills when they have money problems) and my ex stood in between us and tried to get me to leave. I refused. My ex has pushed away all of her friends, ignores my texts. cancels all her plans with her friends. she's always with her girlfriend. when they break up, I'm there for her. When they get back together I'm ignored. I know I deserved some of this but do you think I should still be paying for what I did to her?
Who do you think is the bad guy? me or her?Who's the bad guy? (this is long)?
the mistake was from both of you, you started it, she moved on with someone else,and now you are both paying it, but i think if after that she does all of that, she still loves youWho's the bad guy? (this is long)?
I think it's important that you try and take full responsibility over what has happened. I cheated on my ex girlfriend, but it wasn't cause I wanted to. Like you, the girl came onto me, at a club. There were drinks involved, and she kissed like 5 other guys that night. I told my ex the next day, but to her, this could never be forgotten so she broke up with me.
The reason I think it's important to accept that you made the mistake is so that you can become a better person, because let's face it, we can all improve on ourselves in some way. I've convinced myself that it's all my fault, even if there are factors to why the relationship between me and my ex may have failed (for instance, I was suicidal, and I told her, and she walked away from me... so much for that ';for better or for worse, in sickness and in health'; crap that is exchanged during vows, since I wanted to make this girl my wife).
Your ex is probably having a hard time acting rationally as well. Everyone likes to think they're right. Even I do too. I know I can't change my ex's mind, so to me, it's best I leave that to the past and move on. Learn from my mistakes. Although I kind of feel tainted cause of that kiss, people have created this lame saying that goes ';once a cheater, always a cheater'; and even though I don't believe it to be true whatsoever, people are so convinced of it.
jumping jehosophat, u r d wrong one here, and r u guys gay?computer security deleted myspace
One of her friends started to take an interest in me and for some reason since our sex life had slowed down I became curious. I fought it like crazy because I refused to cheat. I'd been cheated on way too many times to do that to her. We were always open with eachother about our feelings so I told her how I felt about her friend. We both cried and argued and decided to take a break. But it wasn't really a break. I couldn't do anything I wanted. Didn't want to be single because I loved her. And she still called every single day. We still had sex, everything was as if we never seperated. So we got back together. Things were okay for a few months but then her friend came BACK into the picture. This time I refused to tell my girl about it because I felt it was nothing. But one day after a party, my girlfriend drove home with another friend and i drove the girl home. As we were saying goodbye, she kissed me. I soon pulled her off and told I couldn't. I loved my girlfriend but I still felt like I'd cheated. I went back to my girlfriend's house ashamed at myself. She deserved better than me. I'd cheated on her. I couldn't even sleep beside her that night, so i woke her up to talk. I told her she was too good of a girl to be with someone like me. Things were too comfortable and I wasn't sure if I was even able to settle down yet. I wanted to but after what I believed was cheating on her I didn't think I could settle down.
I didn't tell her I cheated. Just told her I wasn't sure what I wanted. As we both sat there sobbing, she told me ';once you figure out what you want, I'll be here. Just don't forget that. I'll wait for you.';
I left early that morning and drove to her friend's house. told her the news. she was shocked and said i shouldn't have. After afew days I was sleeping with her. But soon realized I still loved my ex. It killed her to hear this but she understood. I showed up at my ex's house that night with a cake for her birthday. I had a mini birthday party for her and at exactly midnight had her blow out her candles. But the whole time, she was on the phone with another girl she liked. It broke my heart hearing her flirt over the phone but I knew I deserved it after breaking her heart. A few days later, I came clean to my ex. told her everything that happened. Explained that I knew I'd messed up and I was ready now. But I knew she wasn't. She told me ';well we hardly ever had sex. So I wanna see if me and things with this other girl work out'; I was crying and told her I understood but if we ever got back together that we would have sex. even though sex shouldn't have been the issue. I was desperate for her back.
She's still with that girl. And she's told my ex not to talk to me, not to hang out with me, not to even think of me. She steals my ex's phone and insults me. Threatens me. And the sad part is she lets her. Once she even tried to kick me out of my ex's house (i'm still very close with my ex's family and help out with bills when they have money problems) and my ex stood in between us and tried to get me to leave. I refused. My ex has pushed away all of her friends, ignores my texts. cancels all her plans with her friends. she's always with her girlfriend. when they break up, I'm there for her. When they get back together I'm ignored. I know I deserved some of this but do you think I should still be paying for what I did to her?
Who do you think is the bad guy? me or her?Who's the bad guy? (this is long)?
the mistake was from both of you, you started it, she moved on with someone else,and now you are both paying it, but i think if after that she does all of that, she still loves youWho's the bad guy? (this is long)?
I think it's important that you try and take full responsibility over what has happened. I cheated on my ex girlfriend, but it wasn't cause I wanted to. Like you, the girl came onto me, at a club. There were drinks involved, and she kissed like 5 other guys that night. I told my ex the next day, but to her, this could never be forgotten so she broke up with me.
The reason I think it's important to accept that you made the mistake is so that you can become a better person, because let's face it, we can all improve on ourselves in some way. I've convinced myself that it's all my fault, even if there are factors to why the relationship between me and my ex may have failed (for instance, I was suicidal, and I told her, and she walked away from me... so much for that ';for better or for worse, in sickness and in health'; crap that is exchanged during vows, since I wanted to make this girl my wife).
Your ex is probably having a hard time acting rationally as well. Everyone likes to think they're right. Even I do too. I know I can't change my ex's mind, so to me, it's best I leave that to the past and move on. Learn from my mistakes. Although I kind of feel tainted cause of that kiss, people have created this lame saying that goes ';once a cheater, always a cheater'; and even though I don't believe it to be true whatsoever, people are so convinced of it.
jumping jehosophat, u r d wrong one here, and r u guys gay?
I can't tell if my guy friend likes me or just wants sex?
okay so i just met my guy friend this year and we hit it off. I thought he really liked me because he was super flirty. We played 21 questions over text to know each other better. and he told me hes done it alot. which turned me off. he asked if i was a virgin and i am. and he knows im bi. and me and him ALWAYs joke about sex. and we'll do sexual hand motions. but since he told me he flirts with everyone how do i know if he wants me for sex or likes me or if hes just really being a perverted friend? haI can't tell if my guy friend likes me or just wants sex?
How old is this guy?
If you guys are teenagers, then yes, all he wants is sex. He can't help it, it's his hormones. He may be a good person deep down inside, but he may feel the need to ';conquer'; you. I wonder how many virgins he deflowered.
I would be very careful if I were you.
How old is this guy?
If you guys are teenagers, then yes, all he wants is sex. He can't help it, it's his hormones. He may be a good person deep down inside, but he may feel the need to ';conquer'; you. I wonder how many virgins he deflowered.
I would be very careful if I were you.
Im a Cancer woman and I am infatuated with a Libra man!.... HELP!?
I have been talking to this sexy libra man for about 4 months now. We are sexually attracted to each other and flirt A LOT over text msg. We talk a few times a week but I always have to send the first text. we have already slept together once before and plan on doing it again very soon. I guess u can say we have a ';booty call'; type of relationship. He is the kind of guy who is a player and I know that I probably shouldn't even bother with him for that simple reason, but there's something about him that draws me to him and I cant get him off my mind. Ive read about cancer / libra relationships not being compatible but is there a chance that maybe our relationship can grow to something more serious than just sex?? How do I deal with this Libra man to understand him better? I want to be on his mind as much as he is on my mind... is that even possible to do? or should I just forget all about him since we are not compatible signs anyway? If anyone knows any male Libra traits that I should be wary about I would appreciate hearing them since that might actually help me to make a decision. Thank youIm a Cancer woman and I am infatuated with a Libra man!.... HELP!?
Okay I'm going to give up the goods....I actual am a Libra man and I had a relationship with a Cancer woman (we didn't work but she was/is my soul mate and the love of my life ) Libras in general are social butterflies and that's part of our charm.Don't try and box him in it will only drive him away.The best thing you can do is accept him as he is and if you do this(and this may not be overnight,sorry) he will learn and grow to love you in ways you can only imagine.When he is truly in love there is nothing he won't do for you.You just have to have patience.Good luck and GOD blessIm a Cancer woman and I am infatuated with a Libra man!.... HELP!?
Well i am a cancer sign and im with a libra ya we have stupid fights but great match moving in with eachother in a week hes great so it can work you just have to work on it! if you like him go for it why not!
of course there is a chance!
I mean, there are 12 star signs (i think). And the whole compatible by star signs thing is really silly. Its saying that everyone who is a libra has the same personality traits, sexual desires and morals.
I find this ridiculous as one twelth of the world is definately not the same.
Go for it!
If he's anything like a real libra, he'll be extremely drawn to you if you act very virtuous. Im a libra female and hate it when guys act like abrasive or too pushy. Secondly, let him nurture you but don't ask to be nurtured. Libras in general like to help but will run and become another person if we feel we are being taken advantage of. And be spontaneous, guys love that.
i'm a cancer to, but plz tell me u dont believe them things there waist of time thats my opinon, i think if u really find the perfect one then ur lucky and them things dnt knw nothing only ur self and heart knws who u belong with and which is a perfect match for u dnt let that get in the way if u really love this person
You can't change anyone no matter what their sign is, and since his is libra it's in the stars for him to be a player. He's not looking for a real relationship so you should probably move on. :/
I would leave the astrology out of this anaylsis and look at what you each want.
If he doesn't make an effort, only wants a bootie call relationship and you want more I would say you are wasting your time.
Oh my gosh, birth signs are stupid, if you two end up getting married and die together old, then you'll know in heaven that that crap was stupid. But go for it!
Well I'm a pisces man, and astrology is psuedo-intellectual bullshit.
well first of all don't ever tell him that you believe in horoscopes, trust me it will freak him out a bit.
you MUST be kidding...
does it even matter what month ur born in?????????????
There have been great relationships with various signs that are not supposed to be perfect matches. Just knowing the sun sign is to general is not enough, to know more you would need to know what time and where he was born. But astrology aside you need to have someone who deserves you. I know with the kind of chemistry you have with him is very addictive but usually does not lead anywhere. I think you should gather all your strength and break it off from him. You will be much happier in the long run and have more self esteem! And you will find someone more deserving of your good and caring character.
BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD. I don't know how many times I can say that over, but that's a horrible match.
Let me first and foremost say that I'm female and a Cancer, and almost every female best friend I've had has been a Libra. But when it comes to the male Libras (at least in terms of matching with Cancer women) it is a no go.
What happened with my guy is that we had an 8 month relationship. The first 4 or 5 were amazing...he treated me differently than any other guy had. Then things started to get rocky (probably because we were long distance too, although we would still see each other). I would go out a lot and he wouldn't trust me. Then he told me we needed distance and about a week later, he admitted he still had feelings for his ex. I stupidly let it slide, and about two months later he cheated on me with her. He basically brainwashed me into almost loving him then he screwed me over big time in the end. He made me go against my family and friends and in the end, I was sitting there looking stupid as heck.
A relationship between a Cancer woman and a Libra man is pretty much doomed from the start. It's verrrry nice in the beginning, but then it becomes awful and unbearable. You probably won't listen to me lol, but I'd save myself the heartache.
Good luck!!! =]
Okay I'm going to give up the goods....I actual am a Libra man and I had a relationship with a Cancer woman (we didn't work but she was/is my soul mate and the love of my life ) Libras in general are social butterflies and that's part of our charm.Don't try and box him in it will only drive him away.The best thing you can do is accept him as he is and if you do this(and this may not be overnight,sorry) he will learn and grow to love you in ways you can only imagine.When he is truly in love there is nothing he won't do for you.You just have to have patience.Good luck and GOD blessIm a Cancer woman and I am infatuated with a Libra man!.... HELP!?
Well i am a cancer sign and im with a libra ya we have stupid fights but great match moving in with eachother in a week hes great so it can work you just have to work on it! if you like him go for it why not!
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of course there is a chance!
I mean, there are 12 star signs (i think). And the whole compatible by star signs thing is really silly. Its saying that everyone who is a libra has the same personality traits, sexual desires and morals.
I find this ridiculous as one twelth of the world is definately not the same.
Go for it!
If he's anything like a real libra, he'll be extremely drawn to you if you act very virtuous. Im a libra female and hate it when guys act like abrasive or too pushy. Secondly, let him nurture you but don't ask to be nurtured. Libras in general like to help but will run and become another person if we feel we are being taken advantage of. And be spontaneous, guys love that.
i'm a cancer to, but plz tell me u dont believe them things there waist of time thats my opinon, i think if u really find the perfect one then ur lucky and them things dnt knw nothing only ur self and heart knws who u belong with and which is a perfect match for u dnt let that get in the way if u really love this person
You can't change anyone no matter what their sign is, and since his is libra it's in the stars for him to be a player. He's not looking for a real relationship so you should probably move on. :/
I would leave the astrology out of this anaylsis and look at what you each want.
If he doesn't make an effort, only wants a bootie call relationship and you want more I would say you are wasting your time.
Oh my gosh, birth signs are stupid, if you two end up getting married and die together old, then you'll know in heaven that that crap was stupid. But go for it!
Well I'm a pisces man, and astrology is psuedo-intellectual bullshit.
well first of all don't ever tell him that you believe in horoscopes, trust me it will freak him out a bit.
you MUST be kidding...
does it even matter what month ur born in?????????????
There have been great relationships with various signs that are not supposed to be perfect matches. Just knowing the sun sign is to general is not enough, to know more you would need to know what time and where he was born. But astrology aside you need to have someone who deserves you. I know with the kind of chemistry you have with him is very addictive but usually does not lead anywhere. I think you should gather all your strength and break it off from him. You will be much happier in the long run and have more self esteem! And you will find someone more deserving of your good and caring character.
BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD. I don't know how many times I can say that over, but that's a horrible match.
Let me first and foremost say that I'm female and a Cancer, and almost every female best friend I've had has been a Libra. But when it comes to the male Libras (at least in terms of matching with Cancer women) it is a no go.
What happened with my guy is that we had an 8 month relationship. The first 4 or 5 were amazing...he treated me differently than any other guy had. Then things started to get rocky (probably because we were long distance too, although we would still see each other). I would go out a lot and he wouldn't trust me. Then he told me we needed distance and about a week later, he admitted he still had feelings for his ex. I stupidly let it slide, and about two months later he cheated on me with her. He basically brainwashed me into almost loving him then he screwed me over big time in the end. He made me go against my family and friends and in the end, I was sitting there looking stupid as heck.
A relationship between a Cancer woman and a Libra man is pretty much doomed from the start. It's verrrry nice in the beginning, but then it becomes awful and unbearable. You probably won't listen to me lol, but I'd save myself the heartache.
Good luck!!! =]
How do you get over being in love with your best guy friend?
I've known this guy for a rly long time and the two of us have become best friends. We text literally 24/7. We tease each other a lot and I guess I misinterpreted that with flirting but somehow I managed to fall in love with him. I assumed that maybe he liked me too because we talk soooo much. Before now, he didn't go to my high school but this year he auditioned and was accepted. I attend an arts high school so the pickings on guys are very very slim. Almost no one has a boyfriend and when a new straight guy comes the girls pounce...almost literally. I was very excited at first because I thought it'd be fun to have my best friend at school with me. But on the first day he came these girls started talking and flirting with him a ton and now he doesn't even eat lunch with me. I know one of the girls in particular likes him and it looks like he doesn't mind all these girls flirting. But it bugs the heck out of me!! I don't like feeling hurt and sad all the time so I really need help falling out of love with my best friend. My biggest problem is that I convince myself I don't like him but when I talk to him at school I fall in love again. I don't want to stop talking to him all together cuz he's my best friend, but I don't want to be in love with him anymore! PLEASE HELP!!!
(ps. i posted this question before but i need help asap so im posting it again just to be sure haha)How do you get over being in love with your best guy friend?
It's all on you girl! You can't really make yourself fall out of love with someone, it kinda just happens. Try to think of his flaws, maybe that will help speed up the process. For example, it doesn't seem like your best friend is being a best friend, especially if he doesn't even eat lunch with you!! Best friends always eat lunch together, no exceptions! Honestly, it sounds like he may have liked you in the beginning and was a friend then, but now that he has all these other girls flirting with him and basically throwing themselves at him, he forgets that you exist and that is soooo shady and messed up! He just doesn't sound like he was a true friend at all. He sounds like he liked having you around until he found something better. I think the best friend you once knew is gone, and there is a good chance he's not coming back. It sucks, and it is probably going to take some time to get over it but with time it will happen. Also, the bet way to make it happen is to find another guy! The moment you start liking someone else, you'll forget about him...and not to sound harsh but that is what he did with you, so YOU SHOULD DO IT BACK! Go out and get involved in stuff. After school activities...get a job or even better, volunteer. There are guys out there, and guys who are better than this douche!
(ps. i posted this question before but i need help asap so im posting it again just to be sure haha)How do you get over being in love with your best guy friend?
It's all on you girl! You can't really make yourself fall out of love with someone, it kinda just happens. Try to think of his flaws, maybe that will help speed up the process. For example, it doesn't seem like your best friend is being a best friend, especially if he doesn't even eat lunch with you!! Best friends always eat lunch together, no exceptions! Honestly, it sounds like he may have liked you in the beginning and was a friend then, but now that he has all these other girls flirting with him and basically throwing themselves at him, he forgets that you exist and that is soooo shady and messed up! He just doesn't sound like he was a true friend at all. He sounds like he liked having you around until he found something better. I think the best friend you once knew is gone, and there is a good chance he's not coming back. It sucks, and it is probably going to take some time to get over it but with time it will happen. Also, the bet way to make it happen is to find another guy! The moment you start liking someone else, you'll forget about him...and not to sound harsh but that is what he did with you, so YOU SHOULD DO IT BACK! Go out and get involved in stuff. After school activities...get a job or even better, volunteer. There are guys out there, and guys who are better than this douche!
Am i a flirt? cheating? too much? girls & guys opinions please. urgently need some advice...?
okaY(: so i will apologize for the length ahead of time. here is the summary of it though. i have an amazingg boyfriend. i like him very much 鈾?and i hear all the time how crazy he is for me. although he isn't much of a flirt. nor does he ever text, talk on the phone, or facebook. we have absolutely no classes together (we are in high school) so i usually end up texting with other guys out of boredom, but i can honestly say i have really never like anybody as much as i like mister boyfriend. one friend of mine confronted me about me ';flirting'; %26amp; ';cheating'; on him last week. here is why...
a few weeks ago, about ten girls from my school went to this dance (beyond our school) and had a lot of fun. we danced and talked, and spent about three hours there. one time a guy came behind me and we danced...for almost three songs. afterwrds, i was almost in tears. scratch that. i WAS in tears because i felt like a slut. i had a great boyfriend then grindded with some guy i had never met for three songs. i am now friends with him, and we talk on fb every once in awhile. anyway, last week i got a text from my best friend saying-
';me and some ppl have been talkin and we agree tht u flirt way to much and txt guys all the time. and tht at the dance wen u were grindin tht u were cheatin on ***** and we dont think its tht cool. and its getting out of hand';
i got very upset, especially since i had already felt awful about the dance. but she had to go and make it worse. we had a solid two day fight, but i honestly don't think i have fully recovered.
i will owe up to texting a lot of guys, but they are my friends. i am one of those girls who get along with guys better than girls because of drama, etc. there is one guy, who i had a thing with earlier this year, but crappy rumors were spread and we couldn't handle it. so it never worked out. he still really likes me %26amp; hes a great guy, but i like ***** sooOO much more.
this year i have realized i am much more of a flirt than i mean to be, %26amp; i mess with that one kid, but we are really tight. all my friends encourage that tht girl was over reacting %26amp; i am finee. but it bugs me knowing there are others who agree. yet she wont name any.
please help? i have no idea what to do. should ignore her? be more self-aware about flirting? was what happened at the dance wrong? )': desperate need of advice. thankss in advance.Am i a flirt? cheating? too much? girls %26amp; guys opinions please. urgently need some advice...?
be aware of your surroundings. respect yourself and the word love, don't use it if you have to question it. if you're doing something or saying something you wouldn't say in front of your boyfriend, then chances are you shouldn't do/say it. loyalty isn't based on how many times you text each other, it's the way you respect and uphold one another when you're together OR apart. i remember being younger in school and all the drama- frankly, no one else should be in your business unless you run your mouth about it all over town, so keep it to yourself and your man. maybe that girl didn't have bad intentions, she was probably just being outspoken, but forgive her and move on. seriously- think about your actions and the way it would feel if your bf did the same to you. what goes around comes around, and if you start to disrespect him, you'll definitely get disrespected back. men have feelings too!Am i a flirt? cheating? too much? girls %26amp; guys opinions please. urgently need some advice...?
Claire, Kat, Chikim, %26amp; Kelle Belle- i'd like to thank youu for all of your advice %26amp; opinions too. i have really thought about this, and will stay with my boyfriend, although i'll deff. be more self-aware about my actions from now on. and forgive my friend. Enjoy your lives(:
C Squared House of Pancakes- 鈾?ahahaha. love youu, babe. thanks for the opnion. i'll tell youu my plan later(:
Why don't you talk to your boyfriend about his feelings? Frankly that's the only opinion that matters in all this.
Firstly. That girl is a stirrer and you weren't cheating! She probably wants your bf.
Some people are natural flirts (I can't even tell when I am lol) and that doesn't make you a bad person or a slut, just comfortable around guys. Dancing with him was a baaad idea, but it's in the past. That girl needs to get over herself. There is probably nobody else who agrees with her.
It's not your fault!!!!
You tell him the weights good push him off and make him swim back by chance he'll float a bit cause hes chubby as we take two to st ! Boy that 'll be fun! They'll get him all rallied up , then I''ll say , Baby why you so mad ! You got your work out , Tost ya Ma r!
I don't feel like you did anything bad. However, I do feel like you should let your boyfriend know that you have a lot of guy friends and that you do speak to them and contact them on a daily basis. That way he understands that you wouldn't do anything to cheat on him. I did this with my boyfriend because I have always been that girl with all of the guy friends because I do diesel mechanics and haven't had a lot of boyfriends, but I did feel like I needed to be honest with him about all of my guy friends. The dance thing, if your boyfriend wasn't there, then you dancing with any guy to have fun with at the dance is not a bad thing either. Your friend sounds like she needs to take a huge dose of reality and suck it up. You have already stated that you don't have any feelings for these guys that you contact and that should be just that. So what if you dance with them or talk to them everyday, as long as you are honest with your boyfriend and he knows where you stand. The flirting could be taken down a notch, but you are not that bad with the flirting thing. I hope this has helped.
i know what you're going through because i act like you except me and all my guy friends look like we're dating because down the hallway we'll hold hands or he'll have his hand around my waist. just make sure you're boyfriend is aware that you have a lot of guy friends and that it may seem like you like them you only like him. and be careful about dancing with other guys that could get you in some trouble with your boyfriend but if he doesn't ask don't tell him
I think the whole dance thing was only out of line just cause of the fact that u felt bad afterwards. then that just means that it was a bad thing to do. And maybe ur friends r right i mean if u really feel there ur friends and they only want whats best for u then maybe they r right. U should control yourself next time. If u really like this boyfriend of Ur's and u never felt that way for anyone else than i think u should stop flirting with other guys and text with them so much cause if u really care about him and don't want to lose him then stop and if u can't control yourself then just stop text in them. And if u feel like u can't cause u like to flirt and text other guys a lot then maybe u shouldn't have a boyfriend. cause its not fair to the boyfriend. if u want to have fun and be young then do it but u can't be this way and have a boyfriend. but if the problem is just that u want to text with ur man and talk on the phone then just tell him that u think that u and him need to spend more time together and text and talk on the phone.
Hey C squared House Of Pancakes, haha you know who this is, and I think that you WERE NOT A FLIRT. That other girl needs to chill out. haha i think you need to talk to him and ask if he thinks you are a flirt because you text your guy friends. see you @ school!! ((:
To answer your question I will not sugar coat anything.. Yes you are a flirt and I would consider you dancing with the other guy cheating. Well, even flirting is considered cheating, BECAUSE you are being unfaithful to your boyfriend. I say this because you were being unfaithful to your boyfriend. If your boyfriend went around texting girls all the time and danced with some random girl then became friends afterward how would you feel? You always have to put yourself in the other person's shoes. I know if my girlfriend went around doing that I would be pissed. I know because I broke up with my girlfriend because she had similar problems like you. Except she didn't even realize she was wrong at all.(How stupid can one be not to realize their own F* up?...btw you're different.. at least you realized something)
Look, you remind me a lot of my ex.. Don't make the same mistakes. Guys have human emotions and in all honesty I feel bad for your boyfriend that he has to go through with all these. You say that you don't hang out with girls because of drama, but look at what you're doing? Don't point fingers and look for a way out.
This however doesn't mean don't make friends at all. Some guys are probably getting the wrong impression too. That you want to cheat. I'm guessing that your girl friends told you that because even the guys were talking about it. Just remember, the reason why most relationships goes bad is because of the small things that builds up.
Like I said this is no sugar coated form of me telling you. If you messed up, I don't think people should say it's okay or anything to comfort you. Take it to the heart and keep it there so you won't mess up next time. I hope this helped. Good luck!
Girls who only get along with guys and not girls are because they use guys to get attention and to feel better about themselves.
Sorry, but while I do believe two friends of the opposite sex can be friends, I would never believe someone who piss and moan on how they can't have friends of their own sex, only the opposite.
To me, that says that there's something seriously wrong with their personalities. Having female friends are amazing because unlike guys, we usually sympathize and ';get'; what other girls go through everyday... To get that from a guy, he'll have to be gay or at least live with a lot of females his whole life.
I know I'm being a bit cold right now, but you have to face he truth; What you did was despicable. Your boyfriend is going to get his heart broken once he realizes you can't be loyal to him because your self-esteem is so low that you have to bring misery on others like your bf to make yourself feel better.
If I were you, I would break up with your boyfriend so he can find someone else, and get into psychotherapy. You need help.
the girl did slam you pretty hard, and from the looks of it, you don't flirt. Just ignore her. You already felt bad about doing that, and tell people who bug you, that. Don't feel bad, everyone makes mistakes. Just move on from the dancing story, and focus on what you need to be doing.
hope this helped!
Be more self aware.
Guys and girls can be friends but from the things you dropped: 'the texting other guys because you're bored and your guy doesn't text you, the grinding, the 'messing with one kid'...it sounds like yes, you are flirting. While you may be a natural flirt yu need to take a look at yourself. If all your close friends are saying something and it's about your behavior, then give yourself a harsh once over.
I'll be honest, it sounds like you like male attention and when you don't get much from your boy, you find others and overstep the mark. And grinding another guy *did* overstep the mark. Had it been for a few seconds and you stepped away and said 'I have a bf', it wouldn't have been but three songs! You were enjoying the attention. You have to admit that to yourself.
Stop looking at what people may or may not be saying and who is saying it. Your friends will be talking about you and judging you if they deem you inappropriate, you have to live with that and move on. If you don't think you are, get better friends. But in all honesty, looks like you like the attention and you may be (are in the case of grinding).
a few weeks ago, about ten girls from my school went to this dance (beyond our school) and had a lot of fun. we danced and talked, and spent about three hours there. one time a guy came behind me and we danced...for almost three songs. afterwrds, i was almost in tears. scratch that. i WAS in tears because i felt like a slut. i had a great boyfriend then grindded with some guy i had never met for three songs. i am now friends with him, and we talk on fb every once in awhile. anyway, last week i got a text from my best friend saying-
';me and some ppl have been talkin and we agree tht u flirt way to much and txt guys all the time. and tht at the dance wen u were grindin tht u were cheatin on ***** and we dont think its tht cool. and its getting out of hand';
i got very upset, especially since i had already felt awful about the dance. but she had to go and make it worse. we had a solid two day fight, but i honestly don't think i have fully recovered.
i will owe up to texting a lot of guys, but they are my friends. i am one of those girls who get along with guys better than girls because of drama, etc. there is one guy, who i had a thing with earlier this year, but crappy rumors were spread and we couldn't handle it. so it never worked out. he still really likes me %26amp; hes a great guy, but i like ***** sooOO much more.
this year i have realized i am much more of a flirt than i mean to be, %26amp; i mess with that one kid, but we are really tight. all my friends encourage that tht girl was over reacting %26amp; i am finee. but it bugs me knowing there are others who agree. yet she wont name any.
please help? i have no idea what to do. should ignore her? be more self-aware about flirting? was what happened at the dance wrong? )': desperate need of advice. thankss in advance.Am i a flirt? cheating? too much? girls %26amp; guys opinions please. urgently need some advice...?
be aware of your surroundings. respect yourself and the word love, don't use it if you have to question it. if you're doing something or saying something you wouldn't say in front of your boyfriend, then chances are you shouldn't do/say it. loyalty isn't based on how many times you text each other, it's the way you respect and uphold one another when you're together OR apart. i remember being younger in school and all the drama- frankly, no one else should be in your business unless you run your mouth about it all over town, so keep it to yourself and your man. maybe that girl didn't have bad intentions, she was probably just being outspoken, but forgive her and move on. seriously- think about your actions and the way it would feel if your bf did the same to you. what goes around comes around, and if you start to disrespect him, you'll definitely get disrespected back. men have feelings too!Am i a flirt? cheating? too much? girls %26amp; guys opinions please. urgently need some advice...?
Claire, Kat, Chikim, %26amp; Kelle Belle- i'd like to thank youu for all of your advice %26amp; opinions too. i have really thought about this, and will stay with my boyfriend, although i'll deff. be more self-aware about my actions from now on. and forgive my friend. Enjoy your lives(:
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C Squared House of Pancakes- 鈾?ahahaha. love youu, babe. thanks for the opnion. i'll tell youu my plan later(:
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Why don't you talk to your boyfriend about his feelings? Frankly that's the only opinion that matters in all this.
Firstly. That girl is a stirrer and you weren't cheating! She probably wants your bf.
Some people are natural flirts (I can't even tell when I am lol) and that doesn't make you a bad person or a slut, just comfortable around guys. Dancing with him was a baaad idea, but it's in the past. That girl needs to get over herself. There is probably nobody else who agrees with her.
It's not your fault!!!!
You tell him the weights good push him off and make him swim back by chance he'll float a bit cause hes chubby as we take two to st ! Boy that 'll be fun! They'll get him all rallied up , then I''ll say , Baby why you so mad ! You got your work out , Tost ya Ma r!
I don't feel like you did anything bad. However, I do feel like you should let your boyfriend know that you have a lot of guy friends and that you do speak to them and contact them on a daily basis. That way he understands that you wouldn't do anything to cheat on him. I did this with my boyfriend because I have always been that girl with all of the guy friends because I do diesel mechanics and haven't had a lot of boyfriends, but I did feel like I needed to be honest with him about all of my guy friends. The dance thing, if your boyfriend wasn't there, then you dancing with any guy to have fun with at the dance is not a bad thing either. Your friend sounds like she needs to take a huge dose of reality and suck it up. You have already stated that you don't have any feelings for these guys that you contact and that should be just that. So what if you dance with them or talk to them everyday, as long as you are honest with your boyfriend and he knows where you stand. The flirting could be taken down a notch, but you are not that bad with the flirting thing. I hope this has helped.
i know what you're going through because i act like you except me and all my guy friends look like we're dating because down the hallway we'll hold hands or he'll have his hand around my waist. just make sure you're boyfriend is aware that you have a lot of guy friends and that it may seem like you like them you only like him. and be careful about dancing with other guys that could get you in some trouble with your boyfriend but if he doesn't ask don't tell him
I think the whole dance thing was only out of line just cause of the fact that u felt bad afterwards. then that just means that it was a bad thing to do. And maybe ur friends r right i mean if u really feel there ur friends and they only want whats best for u then maybe they r right. U should control yourself next time. If u really like this boyfriend of Ur's and u never felt that way for anyone else than i think u should stop flirting with other guys and text with them so much cause if u really care about him and don't want to lose him then stop and if u can't control yourself then just stop text in them. And if u feel like u can't cause u like to flirt and text other guys a lot then maybe u shouldn't have a boyfriend. cause its not fair to the boyfriend. if u want to have fun and be young then do it but u can't be this way and have a boyfriend. but if the problem is just that u want to text with ur man and talk on the phone then just tell him that u think that u and him need to spend more time together and text and talk on the phone.
Hey C squared House Of Pancakes, haha you know who this is, and I think that you WERE NOT A FLIRT. That other girl needs to chill out. haha i think you need to talk to him and ask if he thinks you are a flirt because you text your guy friends. see you @ school!! ((:
To answer your question I will not sugar coat anything.. Yes you are a flirt and I would consider you dancing with the other guy cheating. Well, even flirting is considered cheating, BECAUSE you are being unfaithful to your boyfriend. I say this because you were being unfaithful to your boyfriend. If your boyfriend went around texting girls all the time and danced with some random girl then became friends afterward how would you feel? You always have to put yourself in the other person's shoes. I know if my girlfriend went around doing that I would be pissed. I know because I broke up with my girlfriend because she had similar problems like you. Except she didn't even realize she was wrong at all.(How stupid can one be not to realize their own F* up?...btw you're different.. at least you realized something)
Look, you remind me a lot of my ex.. Don't make the same mistakes. Guys have human emotions and in all honesty I feel bad for your boyfriend that he has to go through with all these. You say that you don't hang out with girls because of drama, but look at what you're doing? Don't point fingers and look for a way out.
This however doesn't mean don't make friends at all. Some guys are probably getting the wrong impression too. That you want to cheat. I'm guessing that your girl friends told you that because even the guys were talking about it. Just remember, the reason why most relationships goes bad is because of the small things that builds up.
Like I said this is no sugar coated form of me telling you. If you messed up, I don't think people should say it's okay or anything to comfort you. Take it to the heart and keep it there so you won't mess up next time. I hope this helped. Good luck!
Girls who only get along with guys and not girls are because they use guys to get attention and to feel better about themselves.
Sorry, but while I do believe two friends of the opposite sex can be friends, I would never believe someone who piss and moan on how they can't have friends of their own sex, only the opposite.
To me, that says that there's something seriously wrong with their personalities. Having female friends are amazing because unlike guys, we usually sympathize and ';get'; what other girls go through everyday... To get that from a guy, he'll have to be gay or at least live with a lot of females his whole life.
I know I'm being a bit cold right now, but you have to face he truth; What you did was despicable. Your boyfriend is going to get his heart broken once he realizes you can't be loyal to him because your self-esteem is so low that you have to bring misery on others like your bf to make yourself feel better.
If I were you, I would break up with your boyfriend so he can find someone else, and get into psychotherapy. You need help.
the girl did slam you pretty hard, and from the looks of it, you don't flirt. Just ignore her. You already felt bad about doing that, and tell people who bug you, that. Don't feel bad, everyone makes mistakes. Just move on from the dancing story, and focus on what you need to be doing.
hope this helped!
Be more self aware.
Guys and girls can be friends but from the things you dropped: 'the texting other guys because you're bored and your guy doesn't text you, the grinding, the 'messing with one kid'...it sounds like yes, you are flirting. While you may be a natural flirt yu need to take a look at yourself. If all your close friends are saying something and it's about your behavior, then give yourself a harsh once over.
I'll be honest, it sounds like you like male attention and when you don't get much from your boy, you find others and overstep the mark. And grinding another guy *did* overstep the mark. Had it been for a few seconds and you stepped away and said 'I have a bf', it wouldn't have been but three songs! You were enjoying the attention. You have to admit that to yourself.
Stop looking at what people may or may not be saying and who is saying it. Your friends will be talking about you and judging you if they deem you inappropriate, you have to live with that and move on. If you don't think you are, get better friends. But in all honesty, looks like you like the attention and you may be (are in the case of grinding).
Does my guy friend like me? Is he flirting?
So there are like two days left of school and i don't know if i want to have a summer bf but idk about this guy. most of my friends think of him as a friend and weird to date. and i am afraid that if i happen to date him then they will think i am weird. i think he might like me because he flirts with me a lot(at least i think it is flirting). These are some of the things he does
*makes fun of how i eat
*touches me for no apparent reason(hands, arm, etc)
*does that pressure point thing in my neck(it really affects me. it gives me goose bumps all over)
*he fixed my phone today when i thought it was broken(i wanted to hug him!)
*hes really nice when we text
is this flirting?
and also he said that he likes my friend. he asked me to ask her if she liked him. so i did and she said no. he also is a huge flirt and stuff.
does he like me? cause i really am not sure.Does my guy friend like me? Is he flirting?
ok,so he probably did like your friend, but now that he knows she doesnt like him back...he will like you! b flirty with him like smile and laugh at all his jokes. be pretty and nice :) try to get into deep convos with each oteher about hwo you feel and stuff. about anyhting! it might take time but if you really like thi guy and you are ment to be.....go for it! ask your friends for an honest opinion. they should tell you how they really feel but support whatever decision you make. good luck go get him ;)Does my guy friend like me? Is he flirting?
yes
He's a huge flirt and likes your friend. I'm sorry I don't think so. He is flirting with you though and seems like a nice guy.
Aw, it sounds like he really likes you. The touching sounds flirty to me. Yes, I think he likes you quite a lot. Lucky you!
well depends.
most guys around the age of 14...they like touching. they flirt..but doesnt mean they like you.
the guy sounds nice. but if you really want to know..get another guy friend to find out.
*makes fun of how i eat
*touches me for no apparent reason(hands, arm, etc)
*does that pressure point thing in my neck(it really affects me. it gives me goose bumps all over)
*he fixed my phone today when i thought it was broken(i wanted to hug him!)
*hes really nice when we text
is this flirting?
and also he said that he likes my friend. he asked me to ask her if she liked him. so i did and she said no. he also is a huge flirt and stuff.
does he like me? cause i really am not sure.Does my guy friend like me? Is he flirting?
ok,so he probably did like your friend, but now that he knows she doesnt like him back...he will like you! b flirty with him like smile and laugh at all his jokes. be pretty and nice :) try to get into deep convos with each oteher about hwo you feel and stuff. about anyhting! it might take time but if you really like thi guy and you are ment to be.....go for it! ask your friends for an honest opinion. they should tell you how they really feel but support whatever decision you make. good luck go get him ;)Does my guy friend like me? Is he flirting?
yes
He's a huge flirt and likes your friend. I'm sorry I don't think so. He is flirting with you though and seems like a nice guy.
Aw, it sounds like he really likes you. The touching sounds flirty to me. Yes, I think he likes you quite a lot. Lucky you!
well depends.
most guys around the age of 14...they like touching. they flirt..but doesnt mean they like you.
the guy sounds nice. but if you really want to know..get another guy friend to find out.
How to get over being in love with your best guy friend?
I've known this guy for a rly long time and the two of us have become best friends. We text literally 24/7. We tease each other a lot and I guess I misinterpreted that with flirting but somehow I managed to fall in love with him. I assumed that maybe he liked me too because we talk soooo much. Before now, he didn't go to my high school but this year he auditioned and was accepted. I attend an arts high school so the pickings on guys are very very slim. Almost no one has a boyfriend and when a new straight guy comes the girls pounce...almost literally. I was very excited at first because I thought it'd be fun to have my best friend at school with me. But on the first day he came these girls started talking and flirting with him a ton and now he doesn't even eat lunch with me. I know one of the girls in particular likes him and it looks like he doesn't mind all these girls flirting. But it bugs the heck out of me!! I don't like feeling hurt and sad all the time so I really need help falling out of love with my best friend. My biggest problem is that I convince myself I don't like him but when I talk to him at school I fall in love again. I don't want to stop talking to him all together cuz he's my best friend, but I don't want to be in love with him anymore! PLEASE HELP!!!How to get over being in love with your best guy friend?
I was in love with my best friend, who was a guy, and he moved to our rival school just before freshman year. We used to be really close and we hung out a lot. He was really cute. Anyway, after he transferred he hung out with a lot of these really pretty popular girls and I felt left out too. It really irritated me and I just wanted him to remember me and our friendship.
So I can totally understand where you're coming from. It's really hard to lose some of the time you guys used to spend together. Especially if you're jealous. I was hardcore.
For me, the story ends badly. You see my senior year I found out that my best friend was actually gay. So that was why he was always surrounded by girls. Yeah, total dream-killer right there. I mean it hurt a lot, but I got over it and we still remained friends. Anytime I would call him we would talk and it would be like old times. And we ended up going to the same college too.
This might not be the same situation for you. Your guy friend's probably straight for one thing. The important part of my message is that even though he made new friends and hung out with people more often than he hung out with me, he always had a big smile for me and never forgot that we were friends.
If you like this guy that much then I say go for it. Flirt back! There's always the chance that he's waiting for you to make a move, or that he's never thought you liked him. If you decide that you just want to get over him and stay friends you'll always see him in a different light than he sees you, but you'll have some great times together.computer security deleted myspace
I was in love with my best friend, who was a guy, and he moved to our rival school just before freshman year. We used to be really close and we hung out a lot. He was really cute. Anyway, after he transferred he hung out with a lot of these really pretty popular girls and I felt left out too. It really irritated me and I just wanted him to remember me and our friendship.
So I can totally understand where you're coming from. It's really hard to lose some of the time you guys used to spend together. Especially if you're jealous. I was hardcore.
For me, the story ends badly. You see my senior year I found out that my best friend was actually gay. So that was why he was always surrounded by girls. Yeah, total dream-killer right there. I mean it hurt a lot, but I got over it and we still remained friends. Anytime I would call him we would talk and it would be like old times. And we ended up going to the same college too.
This might not be the same situation for you. Your guy friend's probably straight for one thing. The important part of my message is that even though he made new friends and hung out with people more often than he hung out with me, he always had a big smile for me and never forgot that we were friends.
If you like this guy that much then I say go for it. Flirt back! There's always the chance that he's waiting for you to make a move, or that he's never thought you liked him. If you decide that you just want to get over him and stay friends you'll always see him in a different light than he sees you, but you'll have some great times together.
Does He like me or not?!?! Plz help!!?
Ok... So i have known this guy 4 almost 6 years. and we would see each other occasionally cuz our parents r friends. But this year we are at the same school. and i have lunch with him everyother day. Doesw this sound like he likes me...
-he always tries to flirt wth me over text(i tink)
-Hes always talking about me to his friends cuz all of them know me even tho i have no idea who they are
-He always comes up behind me and grabs my sides(to scare me...and it works!)
-He always mentions how I dont give him enough hugs
.....and theres a bunch of other stuff. this seems like an obvious answer... but its not cuz sometimes he wont talk to me over text, wont talk to me at lunch, or scare me. it's almost like everyother week he acts like he likes me PLZ HELP!!!Does He like me or not?!?! Plz help!!?
He might be scared to tell you his true feelings. That or he's a flirt. Observe his conduct around other girls and see if it's different from how he treats you :]
-he always tries to flirt wth me over text(i tink)
-Hes always talking about me to his friends cuz all of them know me even tho i have no idea who they are
-He always comes up behind me and grabs my sides(to scare me...and it works!)
-He always mentions how I dont give him enough hugs
.....and theres a bunch of other stuff. this seems like an obvious answer... but its not cuz sometimes he wont talk to me over text, wont talk to me at lunch, or scare me. it's almost like everyother week he acts like he likes me PLZ HELP!!!Does He like me or not?!?! Plz help!!?
He might be scared to tell you his true feelings. That or he's a flirt. Observe his conduct around other girls and see if it's different from how he treats you :]
Whats this guy trying to do? how do you think he really feels about me?
ive nown this guy for a bout a year, we met randomly and i got his number and he was single at the time and he took me out once in his car and it all went well and we had a kiss and that and we suddenly had a little tiff one day over text and we didnt talk for months, then wen we did talk again i found out he got back with his ex gf whos at a college quite far away, anyway we started texting again and we were always flirting with eachother (whilst he has a gf) and he was always making flirty comments about me making my move on him, its about time something happened between us, he wants me (in the sexual way) and bla bla ive told him before i really like him so he knows how i feel about him, but im confused because of how he is with me while hes got a girlfriend, hes really flirty and rude towards me, then he deleted me on myspace the other week and when i asked him why he said it was because his girlfriend seen me and got suspicious and he started saying im playing games :S and it got me mad because he was acting as if he cares what his girlfriend thinks :/yet he doesnt seem to care when hes texting me dirtily. i dont get this guy ... xWhats this guy trying to do? how do you think he really feels about me?
Run!!!
He sounds like a skeezeball.
No man who respects you would do any of that to you. He wants you because you're close, and his girlfriend isn't. Obviously she maintains priority over you if he's willing to do whatever it takes to keep her, including deleting you from his myspace.Whats this guy trying to do? how do you think he really feels about me?
he wants to use you for sex - thts basicaly wht all guys want . since yu said tht his gf is far away he thinks ur available for him
Run!!!
He sounds like a skeezeball.
No man who respects you would do any of that to you. He wants you because you're close, and his girlfriend isn't. Obviously she maintains priority over you if he's willing to do whatever it takes to keep her, including deleting you from his myspace.Whats this guy trying to do? how do you think he really feels about me?
he wants to use you for sex - thts basicaly wht all guys want . since yu said tht his gf is far away he thinks ur available for him
So this is why I stopped talking to this guy.....?
So I have flirted with this guy for a long time. I had feelings for him but kept them low key bc of how he is. I have been frustrated for a while that he isn't treating me well and have been wondering what to do. About a month ago I text him and he never text me back so I text him again to just see what was up bc he has never not text me back and he said he was at the hospital with his ex bc she had lumps in her breasts and she was having surgery. So that shows the guy can be compassionate right? So he text me and asked me to come over and I wwasn'table to and he never txt me back so I called him and jokingly called him out on not texting me back and he said he text me and he wanted me to come over and hang out I ended up making plans with him and he canceled Then he text me a week later saying hey sexy you should come over. I have cut this guy off for good and this is why. If he can show that he is compassionate to his ex but he still treats me this way it shows how much of a dick he is to me and how little he respects me agreed??So this is why I stopped talking to this guy.....?
Hmm.
True .. I understand alot--Trust me on this one!
A few months ago, i was going through the same thing except he didn't call me saying he was at the hospital with his ex but he called me making up simple lies and excuses to cover up for him not texting back. Well the dirty truth was, he got back with his girlfriend. He soon texted me to come over his house so i did .. then later that day when we met, he rushed me to leave when it was about to be 5:00 -- GUESS WHAT? He had been rushing me because that was the time his girlfriend came back from work.. but when she did.. WOW! We argued and everyhing!
But Yeaa.. you definetly have a huge point on your story...
he can show compassion on his ex (Who he supposly don't mess with) but he still treats you the way he do .. He's a real snob, or dick. Anyways .. you should definetly cut him off and always remember -- Female always wins and theres alot of male's out there, not only him.
Hmm.
True .. I understand alot--Trust me on this one!
A few months ago, i was going through the same thing except he didn't call me saying he was at the hospital with his ex but he called me making up simple lies and excuses to cover up for him not texting back. Well the dirty truth was, he got back with his girlfriend. He soon texted me to come over his house so i did .. then later that day when we met, he rushed me to leave when it was about to be 5:00 -- GUESS WHAT? He had been rushing me because that was the time his girlfriend came back from work.. but when she did.. WOW! We argued and everyhing!
But Yeaa.. you definetly have a huge point on your story...
he can show compassion on his ex (Who he supposly don't mess with) but he still treats you the way he do .. He's a real snob, or dick. Anyways .. you should definetly cut him off and always remember -- Female always wins and theres alot of male's out there, not only him.
Does he mean it? Flirty type of guy. 10points?
How do you know when a flirty guy means what he says and does, and you arent ';just'; another girl? I like this guy and I have no idea if he does too, or its just another flirting game for him. I went on his Facebook and saw comments leaft by girls. Saying they wanted to go to his bball games, or to hang with him.
DONT say to ask him, b/c I'm NOT.
He always does this to me:
-Smiles when sees me, and so do i.
-He laughs at what I say.
-He says i make cute faces and am cute. in person and over text.
-He bought me a chirstmas/bday present
-We bicker and tease each other. Playfully
-He pokes my sides.
-He bought me a Sonic drink to congradulate me for passing my exam.
-He says he likes when we ';fight';. [Fight meaning like playfully teasing each other]
-He suprised me by changing my cell wallpaper w/ his pic. A couple of days later I chnaged it to a plain colored one, and he changed it again?
-He says I am funnyDoes he mean it? Flirty type of guy. 10points?
guys always have girls wanting them and they might flirt with them too but there is always one girl that stands out from the rest. Thats the one they want to date and not just hook up with. to me it sounds like your the one he wants to date =]
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DONT say to ask him, b/c I'm NOT.
He always does this to me:
-Smiles when sees me, and so do i.
-He laughs at what I say.
-He says i make cute faces and am cute. in person and over text.
-He bought me a chirstmas/bday present
-We bicker and tease each other. Playfully
-He pokes my sides.
-He bought me a Sonic drink to congradulate me for passing my exam.
-He says he likes when we ';fight';. [Fight meaning like playfully teasing each other]
-He suprised me by changing my cell wallpaper w/ his pic. A couple of days later I chnaged it to a plain colored one, and he changed it again?
-He says I am funnyDoes he mean it? Flirty type of guy. 10points?
guys always have girls wanting them and they might flirt with them too but there is always one girl that stands out from the rest. Thats the one they want to date and not just hook up with. to me it sounds like your the one he wants to date =]
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How do i get a guy to stop ignoring me?
So i became really close with this boy over the summer through texts and fb but when school started he totally shut me out and never even looked at me. He ignored me pretty badly and still has... apparently he told someone that he hates me. I'm not sure why he does but we texted every day from morning til night!! How can i get him to talk to me again? AND what are some flirting tips?How do i get a guy to stop ignoring me?
If you know that... Why you don't ask him what did you do that let him dont speak with you?
I think is for some reason so he did that... I'm sry
If you know that... Why you don't ask him what did you do that let him dont speak with you?
I think is for some reason so he did that... I'm sry
What should i do? Help me plz...?
ok so i like this guy and ive liked him for like 3 weeks now. hes the first person ive actually liked enough to want to date. my friends created a plan the week of the dance. they were gonna have a fake bet and the loser of the fake bet and to dance with the winners choice. i was going to lose on perpose and they where going to pick my crush. well when the dance came around and they asked him if he would dance with me (part of the deal) and he said no. well the next week on Monday another friend who wasnt part of the deal told me that she now likes the same i guy i do. im not gonna lie i was really upset. then the next day i learned that one of my friends who thought of the ';bet'; doesnt think i have a chance in getting this guy. and she is trying to help the other girl get him before i can. My best friend keeps saying tell him u like him, flirt with him over text. (i dont have any classes with him and we dont hang out with the same people). how do u flirt with someone and how do u tell them u like them? do u seriously just go up to them and be all like ';i like u'; or what? HELP??What should i do? Help me plz...?
okay first off those are some really crappy friends. find new ones. second...hm i'm just as clueless as u are and need help too. i do think u should start by trying to text him like u would a close friend and see how it goes from there.computer security layered hair
okay first off those are some really crappy friends. find new ones. second...hm i'm just as clueless as u are and need help too. i do think u should start by trying to text him like u would a close friend and see how it goes from there.
So there's this guy ... (how many times have you read THIS sort of stuff now ??)?
So there is this guy and i REALLLYY like him .I know for a fact he used to like me , and me and him flirted non-stop .Nothing happened then though,because I was caught up around some other guy problem.A month later,and me and him were still flirting like crazy though , my other guy problem over.All of a sudden , I hear that he likes this other girl who we hang out with . He still flirted with me , but i thought it would be best for me to stop flirting and stuff , and try and forget him . Well ... that turned into him always being around because he thought there was something wrong with me . So today , me and him were SOO flirty together , and i couldn't help it . and i was starting to think that he maybe liked me again :) ... everytime he saw me in the hall he would sneak up behind me and grab my waist and turn me around to face him , just to talk to him . later that day , i get a text from a good friend saying he is planning on asking out someone on V-day..she tells me who,its not me!So there's this guy ... (how many times have you read THIS sort of stuff now ??)?
You should try to wait to do anything until Thursday, as hard as that may be... I mean, at least then you'll know for sure if he likes you in that way or doesn't.So there's this guy ... (how many times have you read THIS sort of stuff now ??)?
How old are u? 12? u shudn't date till ur at least 15 or 16, don't trip over this guy, its not like ur gonna marry him lol
You should try to wait to do anything until Thursday, as hard as that may be... I mean, at least then you'll know for sure if he likes you in that way or doesn't.So there's this guy ... (how many times have you read THIS sort of stuff now ??)?
How old are u? 12? u shudn't date till ur at least 15 or 16, don't trip over this guy, its not like ur gonna marry him lol
Help Please?
There's this guy I like who likes me back. The only problem is, we're both really shy. We flirted a lot over texts before, but he can't text right now. We flirt in person sometimes, but it's awkward when we talk sometimes. How can I flirt with him in person more often and be more confident? What should I say? I'm just really shy, so I don't know how to go about it.Help Please?
try not flirting.. it only gets you so far.. mostly in trouble. try asking him what he's into.. skiing, fishing, hiking.. then plan to hang out.. doing something you both enjoy... that should make you both more comfortable in an atmosphere that you both can relax.Help Please?
Just be yourself and relax
tell him straight on it works it helps get u over ur shyness trust me
just do it.
its not that big of a deal
try bringing up safe conversation topics like books or school/work, or movies that you've seen recently.
ease into talking about stuff and try talking about things that you feel you know a lot about or feel comfortable discussing to help yourself feel more confident and not as scared.
Look in his eyes. And know in your head he probably feels the same way. Relax. He likes you, nothing will go wrong. Be yourself, good luck.
-Hope I helped-
You dont need to be overly confident, simply giving him cute eye contact, breifly looking into his eyes and smiling, and little flirting like that is enough.
Just be yourself he willl like you for who you are and you will probally flirt more and you wont notice.
for a top contributer this question is surprising. but in these situations you two need a guy like me. im the kinda friend that gets both of yall together and starts telling each other secrets about each other and then after i look like a jackass, you two come in and love the heck out of each other. and then i pick up my fee later. but seriously, you just need someone to break the ice for you and over time itll get easier. good luck and happy trails.
If he likes you, theres nothing to be shy about. Act confident- even if you don't feel it, because eventually you will feel confident to. If he's shy too, you can always remember that he's probably feeling the same way- and he likes you! Just... Have a normal conversation. If your shy, you're not going to flirt big time anyways! Don't cross your arms or put your hand over your mouth- it makes you seem nervous and un-open. Just be yourself- it works.
I not exactly an expert at this stuff considering ever girlfriend I've had broke up with me in a few weeks. But I would take the ';Bandage Removal'; approach. If you just get it over with quickly it could be less painful. Or like bungee jumping it's all fear until you jump, then you can do nothing but enjoy the ride.
oh i know how you feel i am having similar problems with the guy that i like. but i have notied that if i start off the conversation or say anything...anything at all he will open up to me and we talk, flirt, whatever.
so the next time you see him just make a small comment like... hey can i borrow a pen, its cold, im so tired, make fun of him in a joking way. these are some of the things i have tryed and it works great. if you can gether up enough courage to just say anything at all i am sure your conversations will pick up alot more.
then once you are used to talking to him it will be easyer for the both of you :D
good luck. hope this helps.
find something you have in common to talk about and go with the flow....
If you know he likes you then ask him out, like to the movies or for pizza, if you are afraid he'll say no say this, ';I really like you and I noticed you get kind of shy and awkward around me and I thought that maybe we could get to know eachother over a movie and pizza, and then it wouldn't be so weird.'; He'll say YES
i think u should juss talk to him what r u gunna lose??
and ull never stop being shy if u don't juss talk to him
juss go for it
its gonna work out
tell him that if you like each other that if he would like to go out with u or Lse practice talking to a person in a picture and pretend its him 鈾?:)
try not flirting.. it only gets you so far.. mostly in trouble. try asking him what he's into.. skiing, fishing, hiking.. then plan to hang out.. doing something you both enjoy... that should make you both more comfortable in an atmosphere that you both can relax.Help Please?
Just be yourself and relax
tell him straight on it works it helps get u over ur shyness trust me
just do it.
its not that big of a deal
try bringing up safe conversation topics like books or school/work, or movies that you've seen recently.
ease into talking about stuff and try talking about things that you feel you know a lot about or feel comfortable discussing to help yourself feel more confident and not as scared.
Look in his eyes. And know in your head he probably feels the same way. Relax. He likes you, nothing will go wrong. Be yourself, good luck.
-Hope I helped-
You dont need to be overly confident, simply giving him cute eye contact, breifly looking into his eyes and smiling, and little flirting like that is enough.
Just be yourself he willl like you for who you are and you will probally flirt more and you wont notice.
for a top contributer this question is surprising. but in these situations you two need a guy like me. im the kinda friend that gets both of yall together and starts telling each other secrets about each other and then after i look like a jackass, you two come in and love the heck out of each other. and then i pick up my fee later. but seriously, you just need someone to break the ice for you and over time itll get easier. good luck and happy trails.
If he likes you, theres nothing to be shy about. Act confident- even if you don't feel it, because eventually you will feel confident to. If he's shy too, you can always remember that he's probably feeling the same way- and he likes you! Just... Have a normal conversation. If your shy, you're not going to flirt big time anyways! Don't cross your arms or put your hand over your mouth- it makes you seem nervous and un-open. Just be yourself- it works.
I not exactly an expert at this stuff considering ever girlfriend I've had broke up with me in a few weeks. But I would take the ';Bandage Removal'; approach. If you just get it over with quickly it could be less painful. Or like bungee jumping it's all fear until you jump, then you can do nothing but enjoy the ride.
oh i know how you feel i am having similar problems with the guy that i like. but i have notied that if i start off the conversation or say anything...anything at all he will open up to me and we talk, flirt, whatever.
so the next time you see him just make a small comment like... hey can i borrow a pen, its cold, im so tired, make fun of him in a joking way. these are some of the things i have tryed and it works great. if you can gether up enough courage to just say anything at all i am sure your conversations will pick up alot more.
then once you are used to talking to him it will be easyer for the both of you :D
good luck. hope this helps.
find something you have in common to talk about and go with the flow....
If you know he likes you then ask him out, like to the movies or for pizza, if you are afraid he'll say no say this, ';I really like you and I noticed you get kind of shy and awkward around me and I thought that maybe we could get to know eachother over a movie and pizza, and then it wouldn't be so weird.'; He'll say YES
i think u should juss talk to him what r u gunna lose??
and ull never stop being shy if u don't juss talk to him
juss go for it
its gonna work out
tell him that if you like each other that if he would like to go out with u or Lse practice talking to a person in a picture and pretend its him 鈾?:)
How do I get over her?
I have strong feelings for a women I work with, not only is she married, she has a boyfriend. We used to flirt via text all the time. She made me develop feelings for her when I knew I shouldn't, because not only do I work with her I'm her boss. I'm not her direct supervisor but I'm her boss none the less. I told her how I feel, and she said she was sorry she hurt me and I really don't believe her but whatever. My question is how the hell do I get over this girl when I have to see her everyday, and not only that her boyfriend is a guy from work as well. I am living a nightmare here. Any ideas would help!!!!How do I get over her?
Oh Tim, you sound like such a nice guy... get over her! it is clear that this girl likes to play around, why would you want a relationship with someone like that? If she is doing the same to her husband, she would do the same to do... stop thinking about her, stop whining, give yourself the place you deserve, and go out there and find a real nice girl who can appreciate you and love you as much as you deserve.....How do I get over her?
I know just how you feel, buddy. I'm in love with a boy who does NOT under any circumstances love me back. I've liked him for years, and as I've gotten older, it's stemmed into love. He hasn't returned these feelings, though. Everyone's told me that it should get better with time. (That is, if he never asks me out. He doesn't yet have a girlfriend you see. Never has had one). I think it will for you, too. It could take a while, but if she NEVER returns these feelings, you'll soon get tired of ';chasing'; her, and your feelings will probably dim and then fade away.
Oh Tim, you sound like such a nice guy... get over her! it is clear that this girl likes to play around, why would you want a relationship with someone like that? If she is doing the same to her husband, she would do the same to do... stop thinking about her, stop whining, give yourself the place you deserve, and go out there and find a real nice girl who can appreciate you and love you as much as you deserve.....How do I get over her?
I know just how you feel, buddy. I'm in love with a boy who does NOT under any circumstances love me back. I've liked him for years, and as I've gotten older, it's stemmed into love. He hasn't returned these feelings, though. Everyone's told me that it should get better with time. (That is, if he never asks me out. He doesn't yet have a girlfriend you see. Never has had one). I think it will for you, too. It could take a while, but if she NEVER returns these feelings, you'll soon get tired of ';chasing'; her, and your feelings will probably dim and then fade away.
How do you know hes playing you? i have this guy who seems really into me and he doesnt want a relationship?
Ive known this guy for a couple years. we used to work together. We havent worked together for about a year. This was back last April,, he would text me randomly every couple of weeks to say hi. I had a boyfriend at this point and he knew it. We hung out a couple times. Nothing but friends,, but he wanted to get sexual. Around Oct. i was having big issues with my boyfriend and i ran into the guy, We made out and would get together a couple times a week to hang out and we would have sex. I was still in a relationship and the guy know it.. i was in the midst of breaking up with the boyfriend and i did. I told the guy that i wanted to know where things were going with us.. we're having sex,, spending time together and he was texting me everyday. He said he felt too much pressure and didnt want anything serious. So, i felt things were over between us and i let it go because i just dont want to sleep with someone and it not mean more. So,,, about a week after he said that he started texted me again.. and then more and more.. and being reallllly flirting with what he was saying. We met up one night at a bar and he was ALlll over me! and wanted to go home with me. i said no. So, we got together that sun,, i spent the night. I felt badly because i want more. I told him is was uncomfortable with our situation and couldnt continue this way.. he said ok.. lets focus on getting to know eachtother first and focus o sex later.. i though.. OK, this guy is into me. We made plans for the monday night and that day he text me asked if i was spending the night? WTF? i thought we were going to work on dating first. So.. i made a mistake and slpet with him again that night. And on the wed i asked if he wantedto grab a drink after we finished work and he said he busy .. so i asked when we could see eachother again and he said he was busy all week and weekend. So, i felt and ovr reacted and I asked him to call me because i needed to talk.. he said he didnt want to and to just text what i wanted to say...said i still wasnt cool with our situation and he said timing wasnt right with us. He said our lives arent aligning enough for it to work.
What is going on? Why does this guy text me all the time.. i spend the night, we have sex. we hang out and he doesnt want more with me.. its been three months of this? whats on going, im soooo confused. Im in my late 20';s if that helps. im not 19.
HELP sorry it was longHow do you know hes playing you? i have this guy who seems really into me and he doesnt want a relationship?
I really hate to say this but it sounds like your friend wants to be with you as a friend with benefits. He's wasting your time and you can do much better then that. You deserve to be with someone that loves you for you and not only for sex. So if you don't want to stay confused then get rid of him.How do you know hes playing you? i have this guy who seems really into me and he doesnt want a relationship?
hate to say it, but it sounds like you a booty call
okay, he's using you and you're making it darn easy to use you when you keep going back on you're word and sleeping woth him eafter you tell him your not comfortable with it. Can you say mixed messages, honey? With that he acts likehe understands when you say that, but he also know, based on you're previous actions, that with the right circumstances and or words, he can get in your pants pretty easily. So don't sleep with him when you say you're not comfortable with it, and actually work on you're relationship if thats what you truly want, becuase it's YOUR job as the lady to put the breaks on sex, cause he obviously won't. sto lying to yourself and him, if you want ot have sex, have sex, but dont tell him that you're uncomfortable with it if you're actions obviously say differently. good luck.
I'm afraid this guy is just using you for sex,and you are making it very easy for him to do so!! It sounds like you want a relationship,but he runs whenever you mention it,(after he has the sex of course!!) I'm sure he will text you again,when he feels the need for some easy sex,so next time he texts,have some willpower and say NO!! I'm sure you will meet someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.Good Luck!!
He is selfish and immature.He wants the sex with no commitment.Let him move on and find someone who will appreciate you for the person you are and not for your sex.I suspect he has many other partners.Hope you are using protection.No one is worth dying for
Whats going on is that he doesn't want a relationship...well not committed or long term. Seems like he wants to do what he wants when he wants. Thats why he texts you sparatically . He probably has several girls that he is seeing all at one time. Im sure he likes the intamacy. and the ';no strings attached'; kind of thing.
If I were you, I would not deal with him anymore. Find someone that wants you for you and not only sex. and someone who wants the same things that you are looking for.
Hope this helps.
鈾モ櫏
Lets start at the beginning here.
This guy is just a selfish b*^$*%d who is just using you for his own pleasure, and I think in reality, could not give a monkeys about you as long as he is getting what he wants.
If you are happy with that situation, then continue, but personally, I don't think you are, and that you should tell him to take a long walk off a short pier at high tide wearing concrete/lead boots.
Surely there are better guys around than this piece of garbage.
Think about what you want in a guy. Personality, sense of humour, trustworthy, loving and caring, and someone compatible with you, who accepts you for who and what you are, does not want to control you or change you.
Believe it or not, there are guys like that out here, if you can get by the whole looks crap, and realise it's what comes from inside that counts.
Feel free to e mail me if you want to ask anything else,
good luck,
Mike t.
well.....i think he's just using you...sry...but that's what it sounds like. No guy would say that and really care for you....you need to forget about him and move on......he's probably with other girls....that's why he don't want to talk to you....just text you....
He just wants to get laid. %26amp; When he says ';I don't want a relationship'; he really means ';I don't want a relationship with you';. Move on. He's using you. Find someone who likes you for YOU, not someone who just likes you for the sex.
He doesn't deserve you.
this guy is just using you.
stop letting him walk all over you
you are better than that
Im 19 and I wouldnt knowbody walk all over me like that
I know how it can be when you really like someone but you have to draw the line and stop allowing yourself to stay the night..
you have to be able to say no and stick to it
you deserve better than that
Good luck
What is going on? Why does this guy text me all the time.. i spend the night, we have sex. we hang out and he doesnt want more with me.. its been three months of this? whats on going, im soooo confused. Im in my late 20';s if that helps. im not 19.
HELP sorry it was longHow do you know hes playing you? i have this guy who seems really into me and he doesnt want a relationship?
I really hate to say this but it sounds like your friend wants to be with you as a friend with benefits. He's wasting your time and you can do much better then that. You deserve to be with someone that loves you for you and not only for sex. So if you don't want to stay confused then get rid of him.How do you know hes playing you? i have this guy who seems really into me and he doesnt want a relationship?
hate to say it, but it sounds like you a booty call
okay, he's using you and you're making it darn easy to use you when you keep going back on you're word and sleeping woth him eafter you tell him your not comfortable with it. Can you say mixed messages, honey? With that he acts likehe understands when you say that, but he also know, based on you're previous actions, that with the right circumstances and or words, he can get in your pants pretty easily. So don't sleep with him when you say you're not comfortable with it, and actually work on you're relationship if thats what you truly want, becuase it's YOUR job as the lady to put the breaks on sex, cause he obviously won't. sto lying to yourself and him, if you want ot have sex, have sex, but dont tell him that you're uncomfortable with it if you're actions obviously say differently. good luck.
I'm afraid this guy is just using you for sex,and you are making it very easy for him to do so!! It sounds like you want a relationship,but he runs whenever you mention it,(after he has the sex of course!!) I'm sure he will text you again,when he feels the need for some easy sex,so next time he texts,have some willpower and say NO!! I'm sure you will meet someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.Good Luck!!
He is selfish and immature.He wants the sex with no commitment.Let him move on and find someone who will appreciate you for the person you are and not for your sex.I suspect he has many other partners.Hope you are using protection.No one is worth dying for
Whats going on is that he doesn't want a relationship...well not committed or long term. Seems like he wants to do what he wants when he wants. Thats why he texts you sparatically . He probably has several girls that he is seeing all at one time. Im sure he likes the intamacy. and the ';no strings attached'; kind of thing.
If I were you, I would not deal with him anymore. Find someone that wants you for you and not only sex. and someone who wants the same things that you are looking for.
Hope this helps.
鈾モ櫏
Lets start at the beginning here.
This guy is just a selfish b*^$*%d who is just using you for his own pleasure, and I think in reality, could not give a monkeys about you as long as he is getting what he wants.
If you are happy with that situation, then continue, but personally, I don't think you are, and that you should tell him to take a long walk off a short pier at high tide wearing concrete/lead boots.
Surely there are better guys around than this piece of garbage.
Think about what you want in a guy. Personality, sense of humour, trustworthy, loving and caring, and someone compatible with you, who accepts you for who and what you are, does not want to control you or change you.
Believe it or not, there are guys like that out here, if you can get by the whole looks crap, and realise it's what comes from inside that counts.
Feel free to e mail me if you want to ask anything else,
good luck,
Mike t.
well.....i think he's just using you...sry...but that's what it sounds like. No guy would say that and really care for you....you need to forget about him and move on......he's probably with other girls....that's why he don't want to talk to you....just text you....
He just wants to get laid. %26amp; When he says ';I don't want a relationship'; he really means ';I don't want a relationship with you';. Move on. He's using you. Find someone who likes you for YOU, not someone who just likes you for the sex.
He doesn't deserve you.
this guy is just using you.
stop letting him walk all over you
you are better than that
Im 19 and I wouldnt knowbody walk all over me like that
I know how it can be when you really like someone but you have to draw the line and stop allowing yourself to stay the night..
you have to be able to say no and stick to it
you deserve better than that
Good luck
How to plan a booty call, with a younger guy?
I have had this flirtation with a guy I used to work with. We never got together outside of work, because he had a girl. We did flirt, call/text each other but it never got physical.I don't work with him anymore, I left the company. I wouldn't date him because he is alot younger (22) I'm 29. And I think he is a bit of a player. He's not with that girl anymore and I want to take advantage of that. I always thought he was super hot and I would love to invite him over my place for one night. I live on my own, he lives with his parents, lol. I sent him a text telling what I wanted, he responded with ';I wanted that before and I still do'; and than followed that with another text ';saying he was down for whatever';
This isn't something I have done before, and now that he knows what I want and I know hes up for it, should I just invite him over? Or do it the classic way :Wait till the weekend,Go out with my girls, Fri or Sat after the bar/club and call him to ';meet up';?How to plan a booty call, with a younger guy?
Either way will work, just call him and he'll be there. What a lucky guy. I had a similar thing with a co-worker when I was 18 and she was 26. I miss her.computer security layered hair
This isn't something I have done before, and now that he knows what I want and I know hes up for it, should I just invite him over? Or do it the classic way :Wait till the weekend,Go out with my girls, Fri or Sat after the bar/club and call him to ';meet up';?How to plan a booty call, with a younger guy?
Either way will work, just call him and he'll be there. What a lucky guy. I had a similar thing with a co-worker when I was 18 and she was 26. I miss her.
What is this guy trying to say to me?
I use to have a crush on this guy. He and I talked a lot and even the new girl thought we were going out! We use to flirt a lot. I told him I liked him (very carefully) and he didn't talk to me AT ALL! He wouldn't text me or anything. Then he went out with this popular girl and then he started flirting all over while he was still with her. 1)What is he trying to do? Torture me? 2) Should I waste my time on him? 3) I really like him so should we keep being friends if I decide not to like him? 4) Can I get him back? How? SO CONFUSED! Help!What is this guy trying to say to me?
1. This sounds rude, but some boys just like to keep girls around as a 2nd option just in case it doesnt work out, and since he knows you like him, he may think that you will stick around. 2. Never waste your time on someone that only makes you an option! 3. Be civil, and being friends is fine and will not hurt anyone, but if you can't be friends with him because you think it is too much then do what is in YOUR best interest. 4. Wait for him to sincerely come to you and tell you that he likes you more than a friend if thats what you want.What is this guy trying to say to me?
Hmm... maybe he just wasn't interested in you in that way. When he found out that you ';liked'; him, he realized that he should back off a little and maybe give you the hint that he doesn't feel the same way. Don't waste your time on him. He seems immature anyway.
Putting out will solve all those questions.
Is he taken? because if he is hands off, If he is not however he is fair game and remember you aren't married. Good luck! No confusion here.
AHH same thing happened to me last year.
I liked this guy and he would always poke me hug me tickle me ect.
and I thought he liked me but he had a gf so I thought maby when he breaks up with her he will ask me out...naw he broke up with her and went out with another girl and another.
I guess he only likes you as a friend he can have fun with.
Go up to him and ask ';hey stranger whats new?';
Goodluck!
He is probably a guy that is a ';PLAYER';
He just wants to mess with your mind, assuming if he is one.
You do not EVER want to waste your time on a guy like that.
I think that there is nothing wrong with being his friend, who knows? Maybe he reallllly does have feelings for you. Only time will tell.
I hope this helps!:)
You sent a rush through his system, and he panicked. He had a ton of emotion that needed to be released, but his heart for some reason put a wall between the two of you so in order to get those feelings out he directed them towards another girl. He's trying to ease himself back to a place where he feels comfortable around you. Yes, you should waste your time on him. If by ';get him back'; you mean back together with you then you should stick with him until he comes around.
1. This sounds rude, but some boys just like to keep girls around as a 2nd option just in case it doesnt work out, and since he knows you like him, he may think that you will stick around. 2. Never waste your time on someone that only makes you an option! 3. Be civil, and being friends is fine and will not hurt anyone, but if you can't be friends with him because you think it is too much then do what is in YOUR best interest. 4. Wait for him to sincerely come to you and tell you that he likes you more than a friend if thats what you want.What is this guy trying to say to me?
Hmm... maybe he just wasn't interested in you in that way. When he found out that you ';liked'; him, he realized that he should back off a little and maybe give you the hint that he doesn't feel the same way. Don't waste your time on him. He seems immature anyway.
Putting out will solve all those questions.
Is he taken? because if he is hands off, If he is not however he is fair game and remember you aren't married. Good luck! No confusion here.
AHH same thing happened to me last year.
I liked this guy and he would always poke me hug me tickle me ect.
and I thought he liked me but he had a gf so I thought maby when he breaks up with her he will ask me out...naw he broke up with her and went out with another girl and another.
I guess he only likes you as a friend he can have fun with.
Go up to him and ask ';hey stranger whats new?';
Goodluck!
He is probably a guy that is a ';PLAYER';
He just wants to mess with your mind, assuming if he is one.
You do not EVER want to waste your time on a guy like that.
I think that there is nothing wrong with being his friend, who knows? Maybe he reallllly does have feelings for you. Only time will tell.
I hope this helps!:)
You sent a rush through his system, and he panicked. He had a ton of emotion that needed to be released, but his heart for some reason put a wall between the two of you so in order to get those feelings out he directed them towards another girl. He's trying to ease himself back to a place where he feels comfortable around you. Yes, you should waste your time on him. If by ';get him back'; you mean back together with you then you should stick with him until he comes around.
High schoolers / any guy / experienced girl...what went wrong & does he still like me?
I'm a sophomore in high school. There's this guy in 2 of my classes.. I started sitting at his lunch table in December with my girl friend b/c her boyfriend sat there. We talked, flirted a bit, commented each other on Facebook. In class, he never said ';hi'; to me but sometimes he'd talk to me (like twice) He came up to me after class one day to ask how our mutual friend was doing (she just had surgery) Over texting, he hinted that was just an excuse to talk to me. Maybe he was kinda shy, as was I. It was winter break. He made a FB group for new numbers since he got a new phone, I wrote mine on the group's wall %26amp; got a text from him maybe 30 min after. We talked for a while, over the next few days he told me I was pretty multiple times, complimented my hair and body, told me his first impression of me was ';pretty, smart %26amp; independent minded'; I told him that he was cute, good looking, smart..I told him I was kinda shy. We talked about music, books, our nationalities, friends, family. Both of us have divorced parents. He said he'd text me earlier in the day b/c we'd been texting from about 10pm-2am! It was new years eve, and he didnt. He texted me at around 11:50 saying ';Happy new year!!!'; Some things he said over text that stood out..
-';I'll have to meet her sometime'; (about my cute little sis)
-';I'm up late alot so if you ever want someone to talk to :)'; (Told him i'm an insomniac)
-';I'm gonna hit the sack but if you can't sleep still you can text me';
-';Is it pretty? I bet it is'; (Told him i got my hair done)
-';You look good with your long hair';
-';I should because i'd get bangin lunch %26amp; i'd get to sit next to a pretty lady'; (Told him he should save me a seat at the lunch table b/c we always end up across from each other)
-';So why do you think it took a mutual friend's surgery to get us to talk?';
I said we should hang w/our mutual friend %26amp; some other people. he seemed very excited %26amp; asked about it twice. On new years day i texted him asking if that day was good for him to hang, his mom said no b/c he'd been up till 4 (new years) %26amp; went out a few times that week. He said sorry twice and ';we should still hang out sometime'; I said it was ok, i was going to a friend's anyway. He asked ';who? not to be creepy i might know them'; he didn't know them (i mentioned 2 girls and a boy) I said ';i have to go text me later if u want'; He said to have fun (twice!) and said he would [text me later] He never did.
In school on Mon, we didn't talk or look at each other. Haven't had a real convo since.
Our interaction since then:
-One of the classes we're in together is a 1/2 yr course, so after break we had a new 1/2 yr course. Teacher put us next to eachother!
-At lunch, he was talking about our new teacher %26amp; pointed to me %26amp; said ';You were there!';
-At lunch, obnoxious girls we didnt know sat next to me then left. He said ';Siena, you must be relieved! Haa';
-At lunch, I was asking people @ the table what they thought love was (for a school paper article) He explained what i was doing to his friend who asked. He obviously listened when I was telling my friend in class. He said something along the lines of ';I don't know what it is, I've never felt it';. He told me to ask his friend what he thought love was. The friend said ';Sex'; He said he told me to ask his friend b/c he knew he'd have a stupid answer like that %26amp; that I wouldn't get a serious answer out of anyone at the table.
-While walking down the hall, he said ';Hey guys!'; to me and our mutual girl friend.
-That was months ago...Now, when me %26amp; mutual girl friend are walking past him, she says hey to him first %26amp; he doesn't look happy.
-While walking down an empty hall, just me %26amp; him passed by each other. He waved and said hi w/ a smirk, no smile, sadly(?) I said ';hi'; meekly back
-I drop my pencil a lot and he always looks down/bends down like he'll get it but I do
-Bumps into my desk and says ';sorry';
-We were put in a group together during class. I said ';soo should we share our answers'; He ignored me. Later, he asked to see my work. A girl in the group said ';Siena you should write, you have good handwriting.'; He said ';No, have you seen it?'; Whenever I talked, he'd look over but not when anyone else talked.
-A few days ago, he was sitting right next to me in the 2nd class we have together (doesnt usually sit there). My friend who sits behind me said that he kept looking over at me.
-The same day, in the other class, we were in a group together %26amp; had to put our desks in 2 circles (one outside, one inside) He was on the inside, me outside. He said ';Siena, I think you're supposed to move your desk here.'; (He pointedHigh schoolers / any guy / experienced girl...what went wrong %26amp; does he still like me?
think once again,..........
-';I'll have to meet her sometime'; (about my cute little sis)
-';I'm up late alot so if you ever want someone to talk to :)'; (Told him i'm an insomniac)
-';I'm gonna hit the sack but if you can't sleep still you can text me';
-';Is it pretty? I bet it is'; (Told him i got my hair done)
-';You look good with your long hair';
-';I should because i'd get bangin lunch %26amp; i'd get to sit next to a pretty lady'; (Told him he should save me a seat at the lunch table b/c we always end up across from each other)
-';So why do you think it took a mutual friend's surgery to get us to talk?';
I said we should hang w/our mutual friend %26amp; some other people. he seemed very excited %26amp; asked about it twice. On new years day i texted him asking if that day was good for him to hang, his mom said no b/c he'd been up till 4 (new years) %26amp; went out a few times that week. He said sorry twice and ';we should still hang out sometime'; I said it was ok, i was going to a friend's anyway. He asked ';who? not to be creepy i might know them'; he didn't know them (i mentioned 2 girls and a boy) I said ';i have to go text me later if u want'; He said to have fun (twice!) and said he would [text me later] He never did.
In school on Mon, we didn't talk or look at each other. Haven't had a real convo since.
Our interaction since then:
-One of the classes we're in together is a 1/2 yr course, so after break we had a new 1/2 yr course. Teacher put us next to eachother!
-At lunch, he was talking about our new teacher %26amp; pointed to me %26amp; said ';You were there!';
-At lunch, obnoxious girls we didnt know sat next to me then left. He said ';Siena, you must be relieved! Haa';
-At lunch, I was asking people @ the table what they thought love was (for a school paper article) He explained what i was doing to his friend who asked. He obviously listened when I was telling my friend in class. He said something along the lines of ';I don't know what it is, I've never felt it';. He told me to ask his friend what he thought love was. The friend said ';Sex'; He said he told me to ask his friend b/c he knew he'd have a stupid answer like that %26amp; that I wouldn't get a serious answer out of anyone at the table.
-While walking down the hall, he said ';Hey guys!'; to me and our mutual girl friend.
-That was months ago...Now, when me %26amp; mutual girl friend are walking past him, she says hey to him first %26amp; he doesn't look happy.
-While walking down an empty hall, just me %26amp; him passed by each other. He waved and said hi w/ a smirk, no smile, sadly(?) I said ';hi'; meekly back
-I drop my pencil a lot and he always looks down/bends down like he'll get it but I do
-Bumps into my desk and says ';sorry';
-We were put in a group together during class. I said ';soo should we share our answers'; He ignored me. Later, he asked to see my work. A girl in the group said ';Siena you should write, you have good handwriting.'; He said ';No, have you seen it?'; Whenever I talked, he'd look over but not when anyone else talked.
-A few days ago, he was sitting right next to me in the 2nd class we have together (doesnt usually sit there). My friend who sits behind me said that he kept looking over at me.
-The same day, in the other class, we were in a group together %26amp; had to put our desks in 2 circles (one outside, one inside) He was on the inside, me outside. He said ';Siena, I think you're supposed to move your desk here.'; (He pointedHigh schoolers / any guy / experienced girl...what went wrong %26amp; does he still like me?
think once again,..........
I really like this guy, so what do I do in this situation...?! Help needed desperately! 10 points best answer?
We've pretty good friends and spend a lot of time together in the one class we have together. We often text out of school to or talk on facebook chat. I recently asked him if he wanted to hang out, but he couldn't even though he wanted to. We planned to hang the weekend after that but something came up, and we had finally made plans for today. But of course, right as I was about to leave the house to meet up with him, his parents decided he they were having a family night and he couldn't go. It's really frustrating, but I don't blame him because it's never been his fault and he has never wanted to cancel.
As of now, I'm totally confused as to what to do. In class, and when we talk, he's the sweetest guy ever and really seems to flirt with me. I'm almost positive there's at least something tiny between us. In fact, my other friend was even joking with him and told the guy he should ask me out, and he said he was considering it. But I'm just so confused by the number of times we've had to cancel, even though he's wanted to hang out. I'm also quite confused because it appears he likes me, but I'm never quite sure. He told me he wasn't sure us hanging out should be considered a date, and I've said a couple of times ';well you know I'm interested in you and of course you aren't interested in me'; and he hasn't really responded, so maybe he doesn't? I'm just so completely lost. I really really like this guy and would really like to go out with him. I haven't technically asked him out, but I'm thinking I really might like to, if he'd say yes.
He just seems to be very unstraightforward with me about his feelings, I really can't tell how he feels, and I don't know if he'd say yes. I honestly just feel like asking him and telling him that we should just take a chance. One date isn't a lifetime commitment. If it works, he won't regret saying yes. And if it doesn't, we'll have to just be friends. Do you think this might work?
Overall, please just help me out with what to do. I feel like I'm going nuts over this guy.I really like this guy, so what do I do in this situation...?! Help needed desperately! 10 points best answer?
Some people have a hard time showing emotion. He might like you, because he wanted to hang out, but isn't sure that it's the right time to tell you he likes you. Keep up the flirting at school and make him want you more. Give him compliments, tell him you like talking to him because he makes you laugh, smile sweetly, etc. Good luckI really like this guy, so what do I do in this situation...?! Help needed desperately! 10 points best answer?
This guy PROBABLY likes you. Start out safe and go to like a party together or to the movies with friends just in case. Once your sure he's interested, ask him to hang out again, just the 2 of you, then ask him out. And back off during class. Like be friends with him and all, but don't harass him. you have to take it one step at a time, and carefully, so you don't hurt yourself. good luck!
As of now, I'm totally confused as to what to do. In class, and when we talk, he's the sweetest guy ever and really seems to flirt with me. I'm almost positive there's at least something tiny between us. In fact, my other friend was even joking with him and told the guy he should ask me out, and he said he was considering it. But I'm just so confused by the number of times we've had to cancel, even though he's wanted to hang out. I'm also quite confused because it appears he likes me, but I'm never quite sure. He told me he wasn't sure us hanging out should be considered a date, and I've said a couple of times ';well you know I'm interested in you and of course you aren't interested in me'; and he hasn't really responded, so maybe he doesn't? I'm just so completely lost. I really really like this guy and would really like to go out with him. I haven't technically asked him out, but I'm thinking I really might like to, if he'd say yes.
He just seems to be very unstraightforward with me about his feelings, I really can't tell how he feels, and I don't know if he'd say yes. I honestly just feel like asking him and telling him that we should just take a chance. One date isn't a lifetime commitment. If it works, he won't regret saying yes. And if it doesn't, we'll have to just be friends. Do you think this might work?
Overall, please just help me out with what to do. I feel like I'm going nuts over this guy.I really like this guy, so what do I do in this situation...?! Help needed desperately! 10 points best answer?
Some people have a hard time showing emotion. He might like you, because he wanted to hang out, but isn't sure that it's the right time to tell you he likes you. Keep up the flirting at school and make him want you more. Give him compliments, tell him you like talking to him because he makes you laugh, smile sweetly, etc. Good luckI really like this guy, so what do I do in this situation...?! Help needed desperately! 10 points best answer?
This guy PROBABLY likes you. Start out safe and go to like a party together or to the movies with friends just in case. Once your sure he's interested, ask him to hang out again, just the 2 of you, then ask him out. And back off during class. Like be friends with him and all, but don't harass him. you have to take it one step at a time, and carefully, so you don't hurt yourself. good luck!
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