Help Please?

There's this guy I like who likes me back. The only problem is, we're both really shy. We flirted a lot over texts before, but he can't text right now. We flirt in person sometimes, but it's awkward when we talk sometimes. How can I flirt with him in person more often and be more confident? What should I say? I'm just really shy, so I don't know how to go about it.Help Please?
try not flirting.. it only gets you so far.. mostly in trouble. try asking him what he's into.. skiing, fishing, hiking.. then plan to hang out.. doing something you both enjoy... that should make you both more comfortable in an atmosphere that you both can relax.Help Please?
Just be yourself and relax
tell him straight on it works it helps get u over ur shyness trust me
just do it.


its not that big of a deal
try bringing up safe conversation topics like books or school/work, or movies that you've seen recently.


ease into talking about stuff and try talking about things that you feel you know a lot about or feel comfortable discussing to help yourself feel more confident and not as scared.
Look in his eyes. And know in your head he probably feels the same way. Relax. He likes you, nothing will go wrong. Be yourself, good luck.


-Hope I helped-
You dont need to be overly confident, simply giving him cute eye contact, breifly looking into his eyes and smiling, and little flirting like that is enough.
Just be yourself he willl like you for who you are and you will probally flirt more and you wont notice.
for a top contributer this question is surprising. but in these situations you two need a guy like me. im the kinda friend that gets both of yall together and starts telling each other secrets about each other and then after i look like a jackass, you two come in and love the heck out of each other. and then i pick up my fee later. but seriously, you just need someone to break the ice for you and over time itll get easier. good luck and happy trails.
If he likes you, theres nothing to be shy about. Act confident- even if you don't feel it, because eventually you will feel confident to. If he's shy too, you can always remember that he's probably feeling the same way- and he likes you! Just... Have a normal conversation. If your shy, you're not going to flirt big time anyways! Don't cross your arms or put your hand over your mouth- it makes you seem nervous and un-open. Just be yourself- it works.
I not exactly an expert at this stuff considering ever girlfriend I've had broke up with me in a few weeks. But I would take the ';Bandage Removal'; approach. If you just get it over with quickly it could be less painful. Or like bungee jumping it's all fear until you jump, then you can do nothing but enjoy the ride.
oh i know how you feel i am having similar problems with the guy that i like. but i have notied that if i start off the conversation or say anything...anything at all he will open up to me and we talk, flirt, whatever.





so the next time you see him just make a small comment like... hey can i borrow a pen, its cold, im so tired, make fun of him in a joking way. these are some of the things i have tryed and it works great. if you can gether up enough courage to just say anything at all i am sure your conversations will pick up alot more.





then once you are used to talking to him it will be easyer for the both of you :D





good luck. hope this helps.
find something you have in common to talk about and go with the flow....
If you know he likes you then ask him out, like to the movies or for pizza, if you are afraid he'll say no say this, ';I really like you and I noticed you get kind of shy and awkward around me and I thought that maybe we could get to know eachother over a movie and pizza, and then it wouldn't be so weird.'; He'll say YES
i think u should juss talk to him what r u gunna lose??


and ull never stop being shy if u don't juss talk to him





juss go for it


its gonna work out
tell him that if you like each other that if he would like to go out with u or Lse practice talking to a person in a picture and pretend its him 鈾?:)