at first i figured she liked me shes a bit younger, just as mature, and is very smart. she lives with her mom and for the past two or three weeks has been grounded.
me , ive got some things i dont tell her. shes straight edge and i drink / smoke a bit. nothing hard tho. im not hiding it it just hasn't been brought up or anything.
im not sure if shes hiding more then i am tho. first few weeks we were dating, id pull off some little flirt trying to see her phone. and its common teens check each others messages, something she wouldnt let me do. one day i did, saw that shes only texting guys in the same flirting manner she texts me... when i saw that i wanted to kinda shoot myself.
after that i didnt think much of it, til thier was a message from a guy named ray. since i saw it i brought him up and she said oh well, rays gay so you dont have anything to worry about it..
turns the **** out rays her ex and he was i guess trying to talk to her again. i somehow pulled that out of her, instead of leaving it at hes gay.
so at this time im more tempted to question if shes lying about more. this is all during the first 2-3 weeks we were dating, practically seeing each other every day / every other day.
so i found that out 2 weeks in maybe, which shocked me. lied to already but i figured, ok well she almost seems to good to be true so let it go.
then i found out she basically lied to be saying one night she was eating pizza w/ her mom. i finally got her out that night to hang out, and it turns out she was hanging out with (ray)... and he was acting rude / impolite when trying to win her back. she texted her mom telling her this and her mom told her to come str8 home.
ok so thats another lie i wasnt even sure if i could believe. but then i met her mom a few days later and she even brought it up clarifying the exact story...so i gues that part was true.
with all that going suddenly i didnt see her for 3-4 days and got really freaked out cuz i was thinking to much.
oh ya and shes the kinda girl that is easy to talk to in person, yet hard as a rock to start a conversation with online or texting. (we dont really call each otehr)
so after me trying to see her for days, i hoped the 4th day id mustar up some nice words to try n get her out. she responded with a ';cant sorry.';
i said why, she said ';have to sleep, clean, and study. thats why ';
i say awesome (sarchastically) over a text, she says ';ya';.
never has the word ya driven me so ****** crazy.
then i insulted her saying something like oh so im sure this is why u n ray didnt work out. talking about her twacked out schedule.
i regretted it a minute later apologized majorly and she forgave me, and said not to thikn much of it.
later that night was when i met her mom which i mentioned above.
which means something, like if she didnt forgive me why would i meet her mom.
now i havnt seen her in 9 days. she insists shes grounded and her mom has been a complete ***** lately. which is hard to believe cuz her mom seems nicer then the word nice.
ive offfered to give her a ride ffrom her summer school which i did 3-4 times when i was seeing her alot. most of the time its a ';no mom has to pick me up today'; or i have to take the bus ';. which still makes me question more.
its obvious she should know how much i wana see her, yet she'll say stuff like '; no i dont want you to go out of your way to pick me up';
for words like that i think shes selfish and impractical.
at this point we've barely had much of a conversation in the 9 days.
shes said ';i miss you'; maybe 3-4 times over texts. but if you miss someone dont you give effort to try n see them?
i dont understand that part. i guess she doesnt miss me?
i think the world of this girl n try n make her feel as special as i possibly can whenever were together.
at this point its driving me clinically depressed and vaguely suicidal. not just over her ive been kinda crazy on the inside for a few years. my emotions have been demolished in every way since i was 12 so they're hard to keep together. and when i cant see this girl it just feels (felt) like i cant go on much longer.
i havnt had a gf in a year or two which now makes me feel like i can do anything at times. i just graduated high school and suddenly am noticed a bit more then girls, which is something im skeptical about.
now its been so long, i figure if im gonna try to keep myself in a better mood, i cant keep waiting for her. i really need some help, my friends arent here, my family is on another planet, ive got me myself and online strangers im hoping to help : /
thats the long-short of it if u can give me any advice, i dono how much longer i can take thisHaving some girlfriend issues...?
first of all... im so sorry hon... but my ex best friend cheyanne was doing the same thing to my best guy friend sice 4th grade... he would try to spend time with her and she'd be like uhhhh o i have that thing to do wen rlly she was cheating on him with this guy named cody... i had to rat her out cuz i %26lt;3 eric and i dont like to have his poor little heart toyed with... i think she's cheating on u... im really sorry... i know how u feel tho... all u want in the world is to find one girl to prove theyre not all the same... all i want in the world is to find one guy to prove theyre not all the same... and personally wen i date a guy, i have nothing to hide, hell ill give them my fone and leave them alone to search my room if they wana...
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