Friday, August 20, 2010

How do i get over my feelings for him?

How do i get over my feelings for him?


guy friend flirted with me about us hooking up. the thing is he has a gf overseas and is engaged to her and knew I developed a deep crush on him. We exchanged a few words about getting together like where we do it, and if we would use protection, etc. I was really falln 4 him and he told me that it was best that i focus on someone else. anyway a few days later, I texted him to wish him Happy New Year's and he didn't text back and i got upset and called him a dog. I then wrote him a note apologizing to him and suggested that we stop texting each other about sex. Weeks later, he looked at me like he was angry but still said hi. I emailed him asking him if he was still upset and that it might be best that we treat each other as coworkers. he replied back and told me that i was too weird and that he was just jokin and that i should get some friends and a bf. Now I don't talk to him or even look his way, but it's hard since I still have feelings for him and he luks sad.How do i get over my feelings for him?
i no its all hard for you to not like this guy but its best if you do.you probally like something in him that makes you not to want to let go and also dont see in other guys, but believe me that it is possible to find someone else.your either going to find him or he's going to find you.in the end you'll be fine.its like when you get a shot, sure it hurts a little or a lot but later on you'll feel better.it just takes time.About him he 's probally just curious about how it'll be if he was with you.Guys that are engaged feel a lot that way.He may look mad but just when you see him.Remember looks are deceiving,dont get hurtHow do i get over my feelings for him?
Well im sorry but there is no easy answer for this no one should be able to but you have to find a way because liking or loving him cant go away you can try everything it will just hurt more to try to leave him. You have to find a way to forget him and just move on with your life. Or you can always try to find someone that will give you fellings of feeling safe around. But more than everything you need to convince your self that you are better off without him in your life. ( But to me he just wanted a sexual relationship with you anyway nothing more).
DIdnt I answer this before! Um just move on. U cant have him so dont bother urself with the thought. He just wanted sex and nothing more, so but its the honest truth.

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