Friendship problems. (pt.3) please please help. im desperate.?

i have a best friend and were in a little pickle right now..


well she thinks she cant trust me becasue i flirt with every guy she likes. she says its been going on forever and shes tried to ignore it but now its just getting annoying. she says we need a ';break';


she likes like every guy.. so obvioulsy its hard for me not to flirt with some of them. i obviously dont mean to hurt her, shes my bestfriend. but i dont know what to tell her to make her forgive me..and trust me again. but i dont even understand why she cant trust me? she says how can she trust me when i flirt with every guy she likes.. but trust isnt based on flirting with guys.. i really need help and advise on what to do.. please dont pass this up im begging you. shes my best friend and i really dont want to loose her.








this is what i said to her: (this is over text i know it should be in person but whatever..)





ok im sorry i think i flirt to much without realizing. its not worth loosing your friendship over that. but how is flirting with guys based on trust? but im really sorry if i do it to every guy you like and if ir bugs you ill stop doing it so much. but seriously its hard when you like every guy and you need to realize that i want some! but i love you too much to ever do anything to hurt you and you dont need to worry becuase i wont take any of your guys:) forgive me?





then she said:


i want to forgive you but i also want to belive you will never do it again.





then i said::


belive me and ill prove you right:) your more important to me then any guy.





then she said:


okay. fine ill forgive you. but you just cant flirt with *** (not going to say the name on yahooanswers) you can flirt with any other guy. but not *** becuase i really like him..








and i really like the guy shes telling me not to flirt with! and i dont want to tell her hes not his property because i dont want to get into fighting mode again.. and this guy likes us both i think. i dont know what to do what should i say back??Friendship problems. (pt.3) please please help. im desperate.?
guys come and go,


but best friends you can keep forever.


you just have to decide which you want more the guy,


or your best friend.


good luck.Friendship problems. (pt.3) please please help. im desperate.?
if she said she liked him 1st then let her have him.... u flirt with all the other guys anyways. if it turns out he likes u more then talk to her and make sure she is ok with it. if not then just be nice with the guy, but not more than that. u r right...no guy is worth it...u seem so young. trust me there will be soooo many more guys to worry about. u and ur friend should be having fun not fighting over this. and from now on...if she says she likes a guy 1st back off...and same for her. make it ur rule btwn the 2 of u boy crazy girls. i've been there and done that...


remember what a guy would say...bros b4 h0e$
First of all, you seem really young. You need to realize that at this age, relationships with guys do not last very long. Don't ever throw a friendship away for a guy.


Second, I think I see where she is coming from. I have a friend who does the same thing, and it pisses me off. I can understand why she's mad at you. That being said, if she REALLY does like lots of guys, I see where you're coming from. You can't just let her have all of them, right? ;)


Anyway, try not to flirt with ***. You don't need to flirt with a guy to get him to like you, anyway. Just smiling and talking is way better than giggling and batting your eyelashes and throwing yourself all over him. Just step back and let her have a turn trying to get him. And if he's not into her, she'll probably get turned off. And then you can have him.


Oh, and trust actually has a lot to do with guys. You do NOT flirt with your friend's crush/boyfriend ever. EVER.


Good luck!
well is *** more important to you than her? if he is then go for it, if not then don't flirt with him, its possible to talk to guys without flirting. If he likes you he'll come after you, and when that happens your going to need to tell her that you like him, you haven't been flirting but you want to know if he likes you back.


Otherwise he could go after your friend and you've gota either be cool with that or tell her you still like him.





I think you two need to be really honest, but careful not to hurt eachother and end up fighting. You both like the same guy, and you don't know who he likes. Someones going to get hurt and you've got to come up with a way to deal with it